Need some advice

I’ve recently started exploring myself and the type of guys I like. I’ve only been interested in some of these guys for about a week to a month and then I usually cut things of with them. Not to be rude but I didn’t feel much for them even from the start. I haven’t really found anyone I’ve longed for and genuinely wanted until recently. I met this guy off tinder and he was flirting with me like most guys do off that app. He was very open with me that he likes women and he usually sleeps with them a couple times and treats them nice for a little bit then leaves them. He was open to me how he hasn’t found anyone he’s really clicked with and that’s why he hasn’t gotten into a relationship. We talked for a couple days and then for about two months we didn’t. I would think of him here and there but other than that it didn’t bother me. Recently he messaged me and we talked and even met up with each other. I don’t know what it was about him. If it was the way he grabbed me or the way he talked to me. Is it because he’s a “player” I don’t fucking know. We slept with each other and it was really nice. He’s on my mind so much and I want to get to know him more so badly and I want something more with him. He’s a bit of a dry texter and it bums me out a little bit cause I always get so excited when he messages me. I’m wondering if I should even continue to try. I’m thinking in my head “what if I’m that one girl he clicks with” but realistically I probably won’t be but it doesn’t hurt to try right?