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User Profile: sallyanne1994568
sallyanne1994568 July 1st, 2020

I was talking to this man for about 1 week he seemed nice but it didn't work out he was like I don't want to deal with your anxiety etc. he also said that i had too much baggage I have no idea what that means I said right back to him he has baggage too everyone does he said he had aspergers i thought he would be understanding but i guess I was wrong about that. there was a slight age gap i am 25 he was 31 i wasn't so sure about dating him but now i am just moving, on he doesn't deserve me or my love he also told me that you got rejected by a guy deal with it that just made me more upset but I am moving on to someone esle who won't treat me this way thank you for listening.

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User Profile: juliak1968
juliak1968 July 1st, 2020

@sallyanne1994568

You deserve so much better. It's a shame that he felt the need to act badly. I'm glad you found out this early how heartless he can be.

Never just settle, always advocate for yourself.😊

Blessings

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User Profile: sallyanne1994568
sallyanne1994568 OP July 1st, 2020

@juliak1968 people are awful lol what can i say its a shame but i feel my parents wouldn't have approved anyways due to the age gap.

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User Profile: juliak1968
juliak1968 July 1st, 2020

@sallyanne1994568

We find the right person when we aren't searching for them. When it happens that way while you're taking good self care and in a healthy routine, we may not realize it right away. ☺️ It's so much better when you discover quality 👍

Set your own good standards and be honest with yourself and never allow ourselves to be desperate or settle. Your going to find the best for yourself but make sure you are in a good healthy place so you are seeing it clearly. When we are desperately looking, we unknowingly become vulnerable to gamers. 👀

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User Profile: sallyanne1994568
sallyanne1994568 OP July 1st, 2020

@juliak1968 i know i am not ready to get attached right now since this just happend last night

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User Profile: juliak1968
juliak1968 July 1st, 2020

@sallyanne1994568

I've decided for myself to work on my mental health for the next year or so, if we meet somebody nice, I will try to keep it causual and simple friendship. Just that I know I'm not ready yet. ☺️🤸

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