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Over thinking..

User Profile: goldenPlane7010
goldenPlane7010 August 20th, 2019

So recently my boyfriend of 2+ years has started to kinda drift apart from me it seems.. When im gone he barley messeges me, he changed the password to his phone, and just acts strange.. A year ago we got engaged and that when i started seeing it the most, so my question is what do you guys think i can do to fix things? I feel like it may be my fault but he never talks to me anymore..

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User Profile: Aayla
Aayla August 20th, 2019

Apparently the best solution would be to confront him about it. The key of a healthy relationship is, in my opinion, dialogue: whenever issues arise, the best way to keep your relationship good is to talk about it openly with your partner, express your feelings, doubts, feaf. If he listens and values your feelings, if he explains you what is going on and he decides to make things better, you'll know he truly cares and there's a chance things will get better again. If he minimizes your feelings, if he refuses to admit that something's changed and doesn't explain you what it is, or if he makes no efforts to make you feel better after you have opened up about this, then and only then you can start considering if staying in your relationship is truly the best thing for you.