Past problems
34F I started dating a man that knew my ex years ago. We’ve been dating for 7 months. I initially was concerned bc I don’t want to be in the same circle of my past relationship. He just recently told me he had sexual relationship with other women I know from this circle that he didn’t disclose previously even when they were brought up in discussion. Additionally these women has also had sexual encounters with my ex and that how he knew some information about me. I feel a bit upset that he didn’t tell me. Should I just let the past be the past and get over it. Or is this a lie of omission and too much connections or the past being brought to the present? I spent a long time getting over my past relationship and a lot of effort not bringing that relationship hurt to the present. But now I feel like I’m sitting in a graveyard and he’s holding the skulls.
@reliableChestnut3217
It is hard to date within people whom know others from the past..... almost inevitable that somewhere there are going to be hook-ups or what ever among a circle..... was the omission on purpose or just happened and was not sure how to bring it up .......... if the thing was long in the past .... not recent i would let it go if the rest of the relationship is going well.... i think too many times we dig when there is no reason....
@toughTiger6481 yeah that’s true I’m really trying here... it’s just the omission was on purpose and that what is bugging me.