Should I still keep going and wait for her?
A friend of mine introduced me to a foreign girl whom he has been friends with for years already. I would admit that she had already caught my attention even on the first time I saw her. I did not wait further that after a few months of casual hanging out, I started pursuing her. I don
@built2last Stop. If she's repeatedly told you she's not ready and she's not giving you signs she doesn't like you, she's probably not that into you. If it turns out she does, she'll respond. Otherwise, don't waste your time and don't bother her when she's already said she's not ready.
@built2last
Hey there, hopefully you are doing well. Theres a few things I would like to point out;
A friend of mine introduced me to a foreign girl whom he has been friends with for years already. I would admit that she had already caught my attention even on the first time I saw her. I did not wait further that after a few months of casual hanging out, I started pursuing her. I dont mean to rush but I just cant afford to wait much longer. (This communicates you have unmet needs, anxiety, starved of love, and desperate to form a connection without being patient. You are rushing things and its going to make her feel trapped. The fact you started to pursue her a lot earlier on will make her feel like you are similar to other guy she meets that are constantly chasing her). However, thats what actually happened to me; I waited for her and still am waiting because she keeps on telling me she is not yet ready. (You probably made her feel that things are going to fast and it feels like you are projecting the relationship vibe on her so she will tell you things like "Im not ready for a relationship", "im not ready", or "i dont know how i feel") Shes not pushing me away (The way she said "im not ready", its her way of saying "slow down, you are coming on too strong and its turning me off at this moment". You are making her feel smothered with your pursuing and anxious behavior. You may want things to go fast, but women open their heart slowly to you, if you mess with the natural process of this then she will get turn off) nor giving me hints if she also likes me back so Im quite confused. (Her interest is quite low because of your pursuing and rushing things) Everytime I try to confront her, she cuts me off. (The fact you are confronting her about this lets her know you dont have emotional self control and that you are trying yo force things with her, so she starts to cut you off because she feels trapped by your behavior) I dont know whether I should keep going or just stop right here. (Personally? I would have wait until she reaches out first)
