Struggling with getting over a guy i didnt even dated properly. :')
So we met on a dating site and we started hanging out. It was all so unreal and we decided to kind of "date" but after a while he became unsure of his feelings and after a month when i realised i got real feelings for him, he said that he is not able to feel for me that way.
I am having such a hard time getting over him and to not expect in my head that we're gonna end up together.
@amvy
Hello my name is Josh. Sounds like you really liked this person I advice you to keep busy & take things day by day. As time passes I believe that you will start to feel better.
@amvy
Even when you didn't properly 'date', it doesn't mean that the time you spent with him was meaningless. Sometimes we can get attached fast, especially when we're really enjoying our time with the other person. Time will heal! I remember when the girl "broke up" with me I was bawling my eyes out, not I kind of look back at it as sad but pleasant time.
@sunnyWriting4806 I agree ^-^ sometimes the amount of time spend together doesn't signify the strength of the bond we form with certain people. They have such a big impact on us in just a short amount of time that we become entangled but eventually we do find a way to set our self free and let go. Time will heal, yes <3
@BlueDarkAurora
Couldn't have said it better! Thanks for elaborating :)
@amvy
Sorry you’re experiencing that! It’s definitely tough when you meet someone you really want to be with but they don’t feel the same way! At least it’s better to realize this early in the relationship rather than investing in each other for a long time and realizing it later. And I think it’s good that he was honest with you about his feelings (as opposed to leading you on, taking advantage etc), even though they weren’t what you were hoping for.
There will be others! Don’t lose heart.
CatsInTheCradle
