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Surgery and Exams

My boyfriend has been having back aches and needs surgery for that. I have been pushing him to consult a doctor for months and now he finally has and the doctor has told him to schedule a date for surgery. But my boyfriend has chosen to schedule it when I am moving out to college in a new city and will be appearing for an important exam. We had a huge fight over it. Is it wrong of me to tell him that he should schedule his operation at a time when I will be available to support him and also that I will need him to be there for me during my exams and moving out period?

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User Profile: anxietywarrior23
anxietywarrior23 June 27th, 2022

@thecaffeinatedoverthinker

sorry you had a fight with your boyfriend. Maybe he just doesn't want for you to see him in pain while recovering

User Profile: limeGrapefruit7310
limeGrapefruit7310 June 29th, 2022

Hello, just focus on the exams, and don’t wind yourself up, if a guy runs after others, then you don’t even have to worry about such a guy, I had a similar episode in my life and now I really regret that I didn’t think about studying then, it was very hard then take exams without proper preparation, if not for the https://studentshare.org/education/1595857-reflective-essay service, which helped me a lot, I can’t even imagine how it would have ended

User Profile: barncat
barncat June 29th, 2022

@thecaffeinatedoverthinker- oh heavens, I can kind of relate to this situation. Except I am not a student. My husband ultimately wanted to face surgery on his own. As women we want to be helpful and supportive, but they may not want us to see them in a compromised situation.