The struggle of relationships
I admit having relationships aren't always easy to maintain. The relationships that I have with people arent always good because they never last. I used to have friends but we all went our separate ways, my relationship with them wasn't strong enough because we lacked communication and understanding. When I was with my friends, I felt more alone and depressed. In 2021, I gave some people from my past another chance to be friends again but they walked away from me and they didn't want to be around me anymore. One of them even claimed they wanted to go out with me but it turns out he made a fool out of me. He played with my feelings and emotions, I was then told that he was hitting on another girl. In other words, once when people get to know the real me they leave and start ghosting me. It happens all the time with everyone I meet, people lose interest in me. At times I feel depressed and I beat up myself up about the reason why people dont like being around me. I admit its always been tough but I'm trying to push my way through life and Im learning to live happier each day.
@sensitiveChestnut4695 it can be really difficult when you feel like people are abandoning you. I'm sorry you are experiencing that. Just know that there are still good people out there, you will find them eventually.
One idea is to find a built-in community, like a church, hobby group, or charity. This is a great way to build a friendship group and have something in common with all of them. It's not the only way, but you can consider it.
Best of luck and remember that you will have good friends eventually. Keep at it.
@sensitiveChestnut4695
Hey. I am really sorry about what you are experiencing. It must be really difficult to go on this way. However, I believe there are good people out there who are looking to be friends with people who want a friend. I am sorry you haven't found them yet. But, please don't worry. One day it will all work out.
For now, I would like to suggest a few things which have worked for people. You can start journaling, people usually find a best friend in their journal. You can also try and join a hobby class or a gym or somewhere where like-minded people gather for a task. This can certainly help you find people who will actually enjoy being friends with you.
Lastly, I wish you all the very best for your life ahead. And believe in the process, but more than that on yourself. Good things will happen to you soon.