Thinking about the past
I’ve made a lot of mistakes and I’m in a good relationship having a child together soon but these past few weeks I’ve been thinking a lot about my recent exes. And I feel like it’s unfair to my other half for having these thoughts. I’m not sure if I miss them or a big change in my life is coming and this is some type of defensive mechanism that’s been repeated in relationships that feel to become serious
I relate.
This is so relatable and from the comments I see I’m not the only one. After the loss of my partner I started like deeply thinking over everyone I’d been involved with since even though I’m in a serious relationship now. I can’t tell if it’s some kind of coping mechanism or what it’s insane. You are not alone. Feel free to chat w/ me about it if possible. i randomly started thinking about someone I never imagined would cross my mind in this way. I’m stunned and feel so remorseful to my partner.