Tips How To Get The Right Man... Or Right Girl... Or GOOD Relationships..

FOR GIRL OR FEMALE:
Many Girls now days are confuse how to pick the right man since when boys below 30s are really childish, since the statistic said that the peak high session of a female was 28 years old after that the value of their girl will drop drastically, it leave the girl with very little time to learn how to pick the right man, so often they just follow their heart since there is no guide line and then they regret it later... so this is some point a Right Man or A GOOD GUYS should have:
1. Responsibility (In here including intergrity, commitment and not blaming others)
2. Honest
3. Hardworker (usually wanted to learn)
4. Never Hit You Physically even if he is angry (for safety since many man that is emotional if got love taste he will change and not become too emotional but then after married you will know it the real him, the one that like to hit)
-------------That is 4 triat a Good guys or a Right Man should have--------------
Even let said he is cheating, then your life will be ok since He will be very responsible for what he is done, He will tried to fix it, Even it hurts you,He will accept your judgment and your angry behaviour, He be honest to you so just forgive him and guide him, most man in their young are really weak and fregile but if you they have those 4 clues, that's the rare species you got, got class...
If got that type of man usually the weakness was:
1. Stubborn.
2. Demanding.
3. Sometimes weak on sensing what you girls want(very dumb on girls want).
4. Sometimes crybaby but since he is responsible, he will figure it out the way out and calming you girl.
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The Right Man usually in their young are very fregile and not yet success but successful people usually have that 4 trait and weakness, even bellow 30s they will show it strongly that 4 trait, sometimes u even might conflict with them for their strict 4 trait and weakness..

FOR MAN :
So Now for Man, How to choose the right girl after your 30s since before 30s usually u r the one who chase..
Triat a girl you should pick:
1. Loyal to You, When You stay loyal to you (good test usually when you are young or in a bad situations), when you are already success this is extremely hard to test.
2. Being Supportive (It is connected to loyal triat means if she said love you the she is loyal to you, if she is loyal to you she support you when you are weak and do improve you to guide you to the right directions, sometimes when you are not recover, she take the wheel and trade jobs with you, like for ex. she go to work and u clean & cook for a while until you recover. In that time(usually man with huge responsibility will really get stress, it is your duty girls to help him), don't be have low self esteem, remember that she did that for you so you should repay her and that you should motivate you recover faster, remember there is always great woman behind the great man, We have to admit that in young age we are having weaker mental than her, she will build you to be a Real Man).
-------------That is 4 triat a Good girl or a Right female should have--------------
Remember that girls bellow 30s are still young and there is no such thing called perfect so don't demand or hope much from her. If you are gentleman then if you do sex with her, make sure you took responsible on her(married her and provide her with financial needs). female before 30s usually are still having unstable emotion so you should understand that too. The girl before 30s are looks much better than you for sure, I mean they seems much more mature than you guys so don't compete too look mature on her, you will seems like ape and in the end she will laugh not because your are mature but more like laughing a child when a child wanna imperess his or her parents.. ok, let's talk about their weaknesses, here this girl weakness:
1. Usually having less logic than a man( More about feelings, so please do understand if she do things more dumb than us, know she intent to help us but usually make things difficult, understand that she didn't mean that, she just u know more use feeling more so if logical problems pop-up, don't ask her help.)
2. Emotional and very senstive (don't said terrible think about her, she will remember it even after the world is collapse guys, if u know what I mean... )
3. Tricky (This is I find very hard to understand and consume alot of time, usually she expect to be understood, I mean she will give you signal and you need to decode it.. usually this is the cause of the conflict, she think we all are a wizard know what they think and want..)
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So Man, please do understand that both of you and her are having their own weakness so don't too much demanding.. plus she is a magical creture, she can mess your mind and her encryption or her signal can means many things, God knows how many... don't argue with her when she is angry, remember she use her feeling not her logic, just listen to her and hope the storm are stop in short times..

FOR GOOD RELATIONSHIPS:
BOTH OF U are having weaknesses so in start you both need to form a good understanding that both of you are like water and fire..
Think it as a fun journey and a fun fact that you both need to find the solutions the best that works on you..
I mean look, man think using their logic while female or girl using their hearts or feeling (this can cause conflict)..
Also this:
When a guy is still young on not yet become a man, it's cause more problem then a female in his age ( male are super childish when they are young while female are really mature so please understand that a guys that are still young are really dumb and stupid in their actions, always tried to look so cool while in reality only you know how many times he success looks really cool infront of you, the rest u laugh of his silly actions. so immature right ).
Girl are really complex and details while we are as a man are really simple so it can trigger the conflict (for ex. when she is wanted something she send a signal that not even an angel can know what does it means but for them it is easy to guess, while man are really brutal when speaking sometimes or many times too vulgar until looks like an idiot or barbaric. another ex. when see someone sad, a girl will notice it while man, even if the world are ends he will hardly notice it since he pay less attentions on details).
A man used their eye to judge while the woman use their eat to judge, this is also usually start the conflict (male weak on their eyes while woman on their ears, have u ever notice when a male when speaking always said look, while woman if they speak they always said hear, see the different?).
Female usually use their feeling so they usually can't stand when bombardier using the feeling things and their emotions will explode, they can live with many unsolve problems as long as their feeling are ok then all the problem are solve but their feelings are hurt while man are the opposite, don't care much about feeling as long as the problems are solve, for ex. when your car get hit by another car or vehicle, the first she did was feelings, afraid or cry or angry or anythings with emotions while man when that happen are thinking how to solve it, fix the car or which insurrance. another ex. there is someone looks like a beggar, she will falls in pity while man usually ignore it and focus on the destinations( incase of hurry, she will think about the beggar or even share sometime to help the beggar while man, go like it was nothing or think the logical explanations about the beggar).
OK, here's the point for good relationships:
1. Understanding each other(already explain alot in up there)..
2. Not Selfish (since each of you have your own weakness and in relationships, it's always about you both)..
3. Open communications and Intense Communications (it is simple but very important, to get to know each other and to maintain your love, well all needed to be like being care no matter what are you if you are human, deep down, you wanted to be known, being like care by someone)..
Other that 3 point up there, it always depands on the case, enviroment, culture, and many other things that impossible to be listed one by one, but from that 3 points you can get good relationships, upgrade it to your own point since it's about both of you and the one that really know the relationships language is you... people can only see the skin but all the important things are almost impossible share in details so you need to understand each other, not selfish and keep the Communications to find the every hidden points that will work best to both of you..
Ok, who agree if this Thread helps ?
What do you think about my tips ?