Toxic friendship

@1ntrovertedAli3n I think you should block her on Fb, maybe change your phone number and explain to this friend that you don't want them to talk to you.

@1ntrovertedAli3n

Hey there, hopefully you are doing well. There's a few things I would like to point out;

I recently ended my relationship with my best friend because it had turned toxic. Well toxic reasons aside, after ending it, she was like it must be god's plan or whatever and she's felt like God has been sending her signals for the last 3 years that this friendship wasn't meant to be. (She is being dramatic by saying all of this, and its her way to make you feel guilty about the situation) Then a few days later she tells me she wants to start over. (Her last text was also design to caused a reaction out of you, and when she didn't get a reaction is where she started to reach out) I tell her I can't. She tells me to go to hell. (You spoke your truth, and now she is using insults on order to make you do what she wants and to also hurt you) And in my head I'm like, I am in fucking hell. Then a few days pass and I feel like everything is going to be okay. She's removed me from all social media (This is awful of her to do, its her way to communicate how angry she is at you. She has a lot of past and hurt issues that she seems to be projecting on you) and then makes a FB account for the first time in 18 years of her life and sends me a request. (I can see this is her way trying to ease her way into your life without thinking about the boundaries you have set on her) She then messages me saying, "Hey.. since you plan not to talk to me but I will tell you everything". (This is her way to blame you for not talking to her, and the "i will tell you everything" is her way to make you talk with her)Then tells me she's learning how to drive and passes by my house every day. (Shes making it all about herself) I'm ignoring her through all this because enough is enough. She's then calling me from every phone she can find. (This is harasment at the moment, have you thought of contacting the police?) Hers, her mom's, her aunt's, her friend's, my friend she met by chance. I'm tired and scared every time my phone buzzes. (She is looking to use you as an object to soothe her and to gain validation from you. This is someone you definetly need to get a restraining order)