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When he got me, he lost interest

User Profile: HarrietB
HarrietB June 26th, 2020

I had a huge crush on my coworker.
i made the first move.
we flirted over Snapchat.
i told him I really cared about him and then he went cold.
He won't fight for me or chase me.
i started to drift away from him and he didn't care. I texted less frequently.
i told him I was deleting social media for a week and he said "K". He really didn't care.

i reconnect with him and I'm cold and dismissive and short. I only reconnected because I loaned him money.

Now he loves me.

This boy is destroying me.

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User Profile: sallyanne1994568
sallyanne1994568 June 26th, 2020

@HarrietB I think he is using you i would cut off contact and run while you can

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User Profile: HarrietB
HarrietB OP June 26th, 2020

@sallyanne1994568

You're probably right.

Rejection is addictive. It's hard to leave him because my brain is lighting up like I've just done a line of coke.

that probably explains why he's only good to me when I'm bad to him.

It's so hard but I know I need to block him and move on

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User Profile: Evokun
Evokun June 26th, 2020

@HarrietB

It seems you've just been involved with someone who is a professional in a manipulative relationship. It's not wise to continue contacting him but you look like you already know what to do about it. I wish you a happier relationship.

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