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"You're sick and that's a turn off"

User Profile: indigoOrange9898
indigoOrange9898 November 20th, 2021

I live with my male best friend in my dorm room for 3 months, which means for me that I have absolutely no privacy. Meaning, no masturbation whatsoever. I visit my boyfriend on weekends and ofc I get horny and just want sexual satisfaction. I'm really frustrated and my boyfriend's been telling me that I'm sick, because I have those needs. It's been months since I had an orgasm. Even when I sleep with my boyfriend, I don't really get satisfied. It even gets uncomfortable for me, because he often says okay we'll have sex, because "he knows that I want it". It's embarrassing and I honestly don't feel well anymore. I often dream about cheating, I dream about guys I dated before, about guys that satisfied me sexually. I feel bad about it...but what should I do?

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User Profile: PlasticChaCha
PlasticChaCha November 20th, 2021

Talk to him about how you feel, just that, conversation in a relationship is the key to everything.

Good luck :D!!

User Profile: Kalmmind
Kalmmind November 21st, 2021

Communicate with him about your needs and wants and how you feel about it all. If he feels you're sick for feeling that way then he probably doesn't understand and you need to reconsider your relationship.