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I was in relationship from 10 years and after that he moved to abroad for his masters. At that time I wanted commitment which he refused to give . I broke up with him. he approached me so many times but I was not able to visualize my future with him at that time. Now I tried my level best to find any guy and move on but nothing worked so far. as I am already 31 and I am getting pressure from family for marriage so I decided to do the masters for my better future and better prospects. I am going to the same place where my bf is. I still love him a lot and have not moved in the 3 years . we are connected ij everything facebook , whatsapp , linkedin and all. breakup was not at all harsh. do i need to contact him and rekindle out relationship as I m going to same place. sometimes i think may be he already move on . or he will think I am still mad at him that I have shifted my country. although this move is beneficial for my overall life. please suggest what can i do. I am saily dying from inside.
Contact him, Is better to try and know than to not know at all. Things change in a year now imagine 3 years. Who knows, maybe things can work out now that you made this move for your own good, and let's hope he has done steps for his own good. Then maybe things can work out with a more matured mind.
but he will think i m still mad at him. How should i try once i reach dere? I am getting tensed what if he moved on.
He won't think that if you make the first move to reach out. Sometimes you have to make that hard and risky step. Just say hi how you been? If everything was good between you too when the relationship ended then things will be good now
yes everything was good when we broke up. I am planning to reach out to him once I reach near his place . can i do that. but m dying from inside. this thought that he might have moved on is killing me from inside. he also made profile on shadi. com and he is looking for partner for marriage.