help with relationship
my girlfriend and i have been together for about 2 and a half years and she told me that i keep doing little things that upset her but it’s al building up which makes her really mad at me and i don’t want to do that i don’t want her to be angry with me and i say that i’ll stop and try and fix it which i do sometimes but then other times i feel like it’s just hard.
she also communicated with me how she wants me to be more flirty which i get but i don’t really understand what she means like how i could be more flirty she says “like as if you were still trying to get me to be ur girlfriend or like u have a little highschool crush on me” which i get but i just don’t know how i would do that.
another thing is that i want to get better at having better conversation with her because i feel like our convos can get dry and i don’t like that i really like texting/calling her but i don’t rlly know how to start the convo or even in that matter when we should have a deep convo about our feelings just like a normal check up i don’t know how i should start it but i told her that we would have deep convos about once a week but it’s hard because i really don’t know how
please i just want to make my girlfriend feel like i love her to death again
@adaptableTriangle8538
What type things did you do when you were flirting with her....no one can tell you what you should do because it may be different for all....
my partner was the same i told him i NEEDED him to show interest like when we were dating etc he wanted ME to write a checklist or work instruction so he could do something then say check....that is exactly the opposite of what i was asking.... and pushed me farther away......
as for conversations again there is no one way to start ... just do it ....... open up and tell her how you feel .........
IMO far too many things go bad because a person is waiting......... for the "right" gesture or the "perfect " time ......... those do not exist and frankly in the time wasted feeling grow cold.
