how do you choose between two people?
its because I like two boys (boy 1 and 2) but like I don't think any of them like me back and I already confessed to boy 2 of them but all he said was "okay" and before I could ask him anything else he just left and I also liked boy 1 last year but then I didn't see him around so I kind of lost interest in him and then I started to like boy 2 and my friends don't support me with boy 1 and they think boy 2 is better but like a lot of girls like him and he probably just likes me as a close firend and like I still kind of still like boy 1 and idk who to choose and i dont want to be hurt by who i choose
@yolosabrina66
Hey, Yolo!
Your situation reminds me of a quote from Johnny Depp, he said "if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second.
@TrueArrow I think I probably do but I don't know who but a lot of my other friends like boy 2 but trust me I still have deep feelings for boy 1
@yolosabrina66 the important thing is making a decision that you think is best for you, and one that will make you happy. Your friends will not be with whoever you choose as much as you, or be as invested in the relationship as much as you will.
When you think of both people, who jumps out at you? I think I agree with TrueArrow and the Johnny Depp statement here.
@yolosabrina66... Hey Yolo..
Sounds like you have found yourself in a very complicated situations, having to choose between two guys.. yikes.. I know those situation are very challenging but the hide secert is there's always one of them that we do like a drop more than the other :p..Putting everyone's option aside. maybe you can do a pros and cons list to figure who's the one you like a drop more.. However, my suggestion is to go with your gut feelings when choosing..
Good luck!!!
Here's a piece of advice I've heard when you're torn between two options.
1. Take a coin and decide which side is which option - i.e. guy A is heads.
2. Flip the coin.
3. See which side is up.
4. In that moment, when you see the result, pay attention to your reaction. Chances are, when you see that the coin landed heads, you're going to have an instant of joy or disappointment. Bam! That reaction is your answer.
If you see it landed heads (guy A) and your immediate reaction is disappointment, then that tells you that you probably like the other guy (guy B) more and that the other guy is who you should pursue.