loneliness in a relationship
Me and my boyfriend are usually very busy. And even tho I'm busy, I always make time to text him or call him. He is probably always busy. Because he doesn't even have enough time to text me. Once I just checked how long it would take him to just text me first. I waited for almost 5hours. I feel kinda lonely in this relationship. I want to text him, but then there would be the text for hours. And I overthink and delete it. I want more attention, more love and affection. For me it feels like I love too much and it's destroying me, because I feel now more lonely, than when I was single and dating. I miss the attention I got, but I love him, so I only want his attention. I don't know how to ask for it, without being rude..
If you'll ask for some attention, you will not be rude nor selfish! It's completly OK and everybody needs being loved and cared about ❤️ If you want, you can "grab him" (during his break) to the calming, romantic walk and tell him everything what's on your heart.
Yes I agree with u and I understand you in certain points as I personally have gone through to this. If u don't mind I would like to tell you don't just delete the msg instead text him I miss you and m very excited If we meet just for 5 mins tomorrow plz make out. I think he too will realise how much you miss him and therefore start giving you more time and attention as compared to now. And last but not the least you both work so you have to respect his working space and rather u too be busy with work n make him proud of your achievements