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User Profile: ghostspoetry
ghostspoetry April 29th, 2022

everybody i know is in a relationship .. the “friends” i do have, has somebody else, they don’t need me. it’s like i’m just there..fulfilling no purpose.

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User Profile: llyss17
llyss17 August 12th, 2025

@ghostspoetry

I'm very sorry you have to go through this. I understand how hard it is to adjust to a society where you feel unwanted. Please know that your worth is not defined by this. You are worth so much more than what you can offer to the world.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, it means a lot. I wish you all the best! :)

User Profile: Kindear2001
Kindear2001 August 13th, 2025

@ghostspoetry

I hear you, It’s really lonely feeling like everyone else has their somebody and your just left on the sidelines. But i want you to know that even if it feels like your not needed your presence and feelings totally matter! Has anything helped you feel a little less lonely lately, even in small ways?

User Profile: SoulHeaven
SoulHeaven August 19th, 2025

@ghostspoetry Hey, It sounds like you are feeling overlooked and really not needed by your friends, even though that's not necessarily true. Every relationship has it's own importance and your value to them is unique. How would it feel for you to open up to your friends about what you are experiencing? 

User Profile: Emilion
Emilion May 3rd

@ghostspoetry

It sounds like you're feeling invisible and replaceable, like everyone around you has someone more important to them, and that leaves you wondering what your place even is. That must be really lonely.

User Profile: Eclipse26
Eclipse26 June 24th

@ghostspoetry, it sounds incredibly heavy to feel like you are just on sidelines of your friends lives. Feeling unseen or disconnected is deeply painful, but please know that your worth is not defined by your relationship status or how busy other people are. I am here to listen. Please feel free to reach out at Eclipse26 and I’ll be happy to support you.

User Profile: ohdoodles091
ohdoodles091 June 25th

I too have felt this way. I still do at times. Even if the so called friends aren't in a relationship. Im just a loner.

User Profile: DireWulf3210
DireWulf3210 July 14th

@ghostspoetry I'm really sorry you're feeling this way. It sounds like you're feeling lonely and as though you're not important to the people around you. That must be really painful. I'm here with you, and I'd like to understand more. Can you tell me what has been making these feelings especially strong lately?

User Profile: DireWulf3210
DireWulf3210 July 14th

@ghostspoetry I'm really sorry you're feeling this way. It sounds like you're feeling lonely and as though you're not important to the people around you. That must be really painful. I'm here with you, and I'd like to understand more. Can you tell me what has been making these feelings especially strong lately?

User Profile: mev1
mev1 July 25th

@ghostspoetry 

It's unfortunate to feel this way and i'm sorry. I wholeheartedly believe everyone has a purpose be it in their own personal lives as well as for others around them. I wish and hope for you to find beautiful connections and friendships that will not make you feel this way. Everyone leads different lives and priorities may change but some friendships come along and can be super fulfilling and i know you'll find them! :)