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User Profile: ghostspoetry
ghostspoetry April 29th, 2022

everybody i know is in a relationship .. the “friends” i do have, has somebody else, they don’t need me. it’s like i’m just there..fulfilling no purpose.

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User Profile: PunkPoet
PunkPoet April 29th, 2022

Have you told any of them you feel this way?

User Profile: alwayshereforyou312
alwayshereforyou312 April 15th, 2025

@ghostspoetry

tbh I feel the same way and I have no idea what to do

User Profile: Purplemoon1313
Purplemoon1313 April 16th, 2025

@ghostspoetry

I’m sorry you’re feeling this way. It’s tough when it feels like everyone else has someone, but your worth isn’t tied to needing to be needed. You matter just as you are, and you deserve to be seen for who you truly are. If you ever need to talk, I’m here.

User Profile: joyfulGrace2418
joyfulGrace2418 June 26th, 2025

@ghostspoetry
I understand why you would feel that way. Sometimes though, it's important to keep things in perspective. I've seen people settle for the "wrong" relationship, wasting years just so they can continue to be in a relationship that doesn't align with their goals. You have an opportunity right now to work on yourself, so that when that right person does come along, you are the exact person you want to be! :)

User Profile: TowardsTheR8Intent
TowardsTheR8Intent July 2nd, 2025

@ghostspoetry Hey there! I can understand your feeling and it's never easy to have this thoughts of self-doubt and being purposeless. But I can assure you you're not alone in thinking like this. It happens with many of us. But it's also important to show self-compassion to yourself. 

User Profile: majesticPillow90
majesticPillow90 July 21st, 2025

@ghostspoetry Hi there! I’m so sorry you’re going through this right now. It can feel quite alienating when your friends have significant others they spend most of their time with. And whatever you’re feeling is completely valid💜 Have you tried talking to your friends about this? 

User Profile: Jameebro
Jameebro July 26th, 2025

@ghostspoetry 


Hello... Thanks for sharing this, it's take a lot to open up ,. Yeah,it hurts when you are being kind and helpful to others and feel like they are just using us , but remember this.. you are doing your best , Don't give up ok you .. I feel sorry for you but you are not alone in this .. you are a person with good and kind heart...  I feel happy that I could give a response to you . 

User Profile: MooshyMushroom
MooshyMushroom August 3rd, 2025

@ghostspoetry

I hear you... When everyone you know all seems to have their relationships, your own friends have their different circles, it can feel lonely. The feeling of being just there, fulfilling no purpose, is hard to dispel.

What roles and vibes do you want to bring into the relationship you want to have?

User Profile: crispLion7743
crispLion7743 August 5th, 2025

@ghostspoetry

That's tough to bear. You truly deserve people who can make you feel happy and free. You hold worth just as you are, and you do matter, even if it doesn't feel like it right now.

User Profile: funnyPerspective3328
funnyPerspective3328 August 10th, 2025

@ghostspoetry

Im really sorry that you are going through this. I understand how self-doubting it can be. It's important to know that love has its own time to come. We might feel lost at time but there is a purpose for everyone and everything. If you want to talk more about it, im here to listen to you.