A complicated situation
My girlfriend is amazing. She's my dream girl except for a couple things. She lies to me about important stuff, and has cheated on me. She is also moving away. She's moving to alaska (her choice) and I live in Colorado. She wants to do a long distance relationship. And I frankly don't trust her enough to do that. More importantly it's breaking my heart and she doesn't even care. And it's putting me in a really bad place mentally. I have loss of appetite, chest pain, and loss of ambition. I want the pain to end. I don't know what to do.
It just means that they aren't the right person for you.
@bubbleCake4056
It's okay to love the person but it sounds like she isn't good girlfriend material if she lies to you and cheats on you. That's a person that you cannot trust.
@Summershy I agree it's just hard to do what I should do.
@bubbleCake4056
I understand where you are coming from and I think any break up is hard but it sounds like going to meet her in person and talk to her about why you want to break up. "I love you any everything but I don't think it's a good idea for us to date. I feel that you don't respect me or our relationship. I also feel that I can't trust you." If he gets nasty with you, stand your ground
@bubbleCake4056
As for being nasty, be assertive with her without raising your voice
1. First off, I understand that you are upset with me but you do not get to treat me this way.
2. You can also ask her, "What's going on?"
3. Another one you can do is "I feel sorry for you as I don't know where this is coming from but it's not okay to treat me this way."
4. If she does not listen and gets nasty. "I am sorry I upset you but since you are not going to listen to me, then I am going to go," and just walk away because it will bruise her ego.
As for breaking up with her, know it's okay to cry because your feelings are valid