Crush on friend
Hi everyone, I think I might have a crush on my best friend. Lately I've been thinking a lot about him, and about being in a relationship with him. And if we could be more than friends Is there a way to know if he feels the same way, without risking our friendship? I'm scared to lose him... That's also why I don't want to admit these feelings to anyone. Would it be better to come clean and admit them? Or would it be better to let these feeling fade away and not risk our friendship? And how do I push these feelings away then? Thank you all for your help! Liesl
Here’s what I think.. don’t tell him but test him. Flirt, go out (alone but casual) like to the movies or something of the sort. Don’t force yourself to lose something that could be really great. Great friendships most of the time make great relationships. Find out in the sneakiest of ways and then if he catches on and is flirty or enjoys alone time then tell him. (Idk what type of person you are but if it were me) I’d totally wear cute outfits or like booty shorts or something around him and see if he checks you out. That’s another sign!
Secretwheels method is really good and i recommend that. But if u want to make 100% sure u could ask some of ur crushes friends to ask him. Ask someone u can trust. Ghe person could ask something like: U seem pretty close ngl, do u like her/him. Then he can tell you. It sounds pretty evil but its actually the safest way i think. U only need to find someone who could execute this favor without beeing too sus and u can really trust. There is a chance ur crush says no i dont like her bcs he is to shy but if ita a close friends he will maybe tell the truth depending on whot kind of person he is
Hey, i think i have the same problem as you- maybe we can help each other