⚠️⚠️I need advice..⚠️⚠️
️so I’m a woman, and I got this Boyfriend… high school sweet hearts.. so everything has been good and AMAZING until this last ima say 5 months, let’s say he’s been lying.. first it started with him and his friends looking at all of these girls *** too, him on *** liking these coffee baristas videos stocking there page and commenting “👅🤤” his phrase I guess. I’m *** famous so people send me them when they see it because well he’s all over my ***… his is just him. Witch I have never cared about. I was the girlfriend who wouldn’t care if the boyfriend told me a girl had a nice 🍑, or is a girl looked good in something. I didn’t care as long as I was getting 3 things out of him 1.Love 2.Affection 3. Appreciation. Well he stopped giving all 3 about 5 months ago. We don’t kiss unless it is to go to bed and that’s because I can’t sleep until I have my goodnight kiss. I still give him his morning lunch notes witch I feel like stopping. I do everything the same besides I called him out on the *** stuff (after I had enough to back myself up) and asked him to not be liking and commenting. Then it went to his *** and *** so I repeated myself once again. The *** all he does is call me a lier but she’s on your recent you can’t get rid of that.. and it’s not just one.. I have not went through his phone and I won’t. Now we were Friday shopping and we go by this bikini espresso and he literally turned his head slowed down and was just eye locked on the coffee shop then goes to stop looked at me and kept driving and says I wanna coffee and I laughed and said I bet you do. I don’t even know what to do anymore with this guy. He don’t care that we don’t hug don’t kiss don’t touch each other until he’s ready for bed I will stay up until he does just so I can get my kiss I’m giving my full 100 and it feel like I’m getting nothing in return….
@Over0thinker1
high school sweethearts ..... and now things are progressing i suppose you may even talk of marriage .....
Can it be he feels he has not experienced more dating and options..... the cold feet may be he is worried what IF's ....
I know i am with someone who i did not date seriously before had probably 4 dates and none past a first date ........IF i knew then what i do now i would have really wanted something different....... maybe instead of telling you he hopes showing his interest you may walk away and do the break up.
have a serious sit down talk with him about how both of you feel and what each person sees in future ...