This is a lot to put on someone but i need help
There's this girl we're gonna name her 700, I really don't like her because she flirted with my ex-boyfriend then after I broke up with him I became friends with her and then like a couple of months ago I stopped being friends with her because she attracted drama to herself and I don't want that life. Then I started liking a friend of hers, pineapple. pineapple is so sweet but basically, I messaged her about him and she knew that I liked him and then I started talking to him and she told me some things about him that I didn't really like like he asked her to homecoming but then I asked him about it and he said he just wanted to go with a friend because he has nobody to go with. then they argued, became friends again, and hang out ALL THE TIME. Now, Pineapple rejected me because I wasn't energetic enough and I was too quiet even though the first thing he told me was that he was quiet, and I told him that if I got to know him more I would open up more and be more energetic and stuff. And keep in mind 700 is so energetic like annoying kind of energetic. and my friend, we're calling her grape, saw a picture that 700 posted on her story and the guy behind her hugging her looked like pineapple (I didn't see the picture, if I did see it I'd be able to identify him based on his hair) so she told me that it was and I was maaad and I don't know if its logical to be mad. then this morning I saw her hug a guy so I don't even know if they're together but maybe she cheating because she be doing that a lot. I just really don't know what to do, if I should even do anything. Also, this girl copied my hair because I went red and she went red and after the red faded I went black and then she went black. like are u trying to be me or what?? but anyway she just always has had no respect for anyone else's relationships, especially mine. I don't know if I should do anything about it, please helppp. also if they are together she made him block me because I'm blocked. i have her blocked as well.
@sophiabr
Unfortunately in life there will always be people who are frustrating to be around. And it sounds like you have found one here!
My trick is to try to see the positives. Yes, you could see her copying your hair colour as an attempt to steal your life, but maybe you can also see it as a massive compliment- you are clearly good at choosing the best latest hair colour!
And yes, getting involved in other people's boyfriends is not a nice habit. But do you want a boyfriend who is easily tempted away or someone who is more committed? If you want the latter, then she makes a great filter for prospective boyfriends for you.
Or, because frustrating people are part of life, learning how to not let them spoil your life is a great skill to have. So maybe you can see her as an opportunity to practice and learn this skill, so you have a more successful life.
Of course, these are just examples, you would have to find what works for you. But, while it isn't easy, maybe focusing on what you want out of life and ignoring her antics might serve you better in the long run.
Mindfulness can be a really useful skill in learning how to stay focused on what matters to you.
