Can anyone relate w sexual trauma ?
Hi, im jus tryna find someone i can talk to about childhood sexual trauma and older too, i just feel like i need to talk to someone i can relate to, ive also gone thru a lot of family stuff and just been in this functioning freeze state, I believe in Jesus so ill prob bring Him into the convo if ur a non believer pls dont see this and leave:’) we can still talk even with our differences..?:) i jus need help and therapy is expensive till I can figure that out this is lowkey the next best thing, ty for listening <3
@pyt
Hi there. Dealing with trauma is so difficult and you are too right that therapy is so expensive. It's great that there are alternatives for those who can't afford it.
But, I don't know. I used to be a huge believer in therapy. Now I've done quite a bit and I'm still struggling and making a mess of life. So how useful is it really?
Hey hun, I hear u, I’ve been in therapy before and struggled finding the right fit, it takes time.. but I think it is more useful than we give credit, sometimes we think therapy is the fix that we need and that it will help us solve eveything but it’s really just a tool that helps us process and understand so we can progress in our healing, im sorry to hear your still struggling:( I pray you come out of this season soon, for us both❤️, im not sure if you’d be open to this but try involving God this time around, I don’t want to push u away by saying this pls don’t see this and run, but Jesus heals, and He answers, and He’s with us throughout, He’s the reason im still here alive today, and though I am struggling and seeking help in therapy, He’s been the anchor keeping me stable, if u want to talk more pls feel free to message me im here for you.. much love.
@pyt
Hello
I wish I can say I feel your pain but can't, as your experience is probably different than mine.
I'm now a 64 yo man.
I do relate though as it happend to me as a child. it's jut that I am blessed to have dealt with my pain over what took place, many times.
My biggest challenge was to accept the fact that it wasn't my fault, even though I was a willing participant in it. I had to accept that I didn't know any better at that age and that the perverts capitalized on my innocent curiosity.
I now accept what happened as what helped me to be the man I am now and I'm not disappointed.
I honestly don't think I would have fared as well as I did without my faith in Christ.
I forgive all things by all people so my closet is clean.
Sorry for the short answer but it works for me.
I hope you get the help you need.
God bless you!
Thankyou so much ❤️ is it okay if I message you sometime to talk ? Also im really happy for you that you have found healing, glory to God❤️
@pyt The thing is,, I'm married to a woman who doesn't like me corresponding with another femail if you can understand.
If you are a man then its all good.
I completely understand 100% I don’t want to cross any boundaries at all.. would you and your wife be willing to pray for me ? Intercession is powerful and a prayer to Jesus can do more than a conversation can do anyways, I would be grateful for even just a prayer :)
@pyt
I'll pray for you, my wife isn't one to pray but I will.
It would help with a name, you can private message your name if you don't want it public.
@pyt I'll just pronounce your name as "pite" when I pray, it that OK?
