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User Profile: warmCherry5710
warmCherry5710 July 21st, 2025

What do you do when you have a situation and you pray to God and it gets worse?

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User Profile: warmCherry5710
warmCherry5710 OP July 21st, 2025

What do you do when you have a situation and you pray to God and it gets worse?

User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 July 21st, 2025

@warmCherry5710 God answers us in ways that are  always obvious, and sometimes in the future we will thank God for the prayers he didn't grant us 💖 so be patient 💖 and please always reach out to talk to someone, you never have to go through anything alone 💖 gives you a giant tiny hug 💗 right here for you 💗

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User Profile: warmCherry5710
warmCherry5710 OP July 24th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 Thank you love

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Tinywhisper11 July 24th, 2025

@warmCherry5710 how are you doing?

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User Profile: warmCherry5710
warmCherry5710 OP July 25th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 I'm doing well my sister. How about you?

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 July 25th, 2025

@warmCherry5710 struggling a bit with grieving, but otherwise all good 💖 sending you good vibes and giant tiny hugs

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User Profile: sadcat13
sadcat13 July 25th, 2025

@warmCherry5710 I get a little upset but I ultimately trust his plan that he knows what is happening and why. I also think through the situation if it is maybe something I'm supposed to let go off and if the bad twist is there to overcome or steer me away (like for example a toxic relationship, a bad career choice, a dangerous hobby etc)

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User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy August 6th, 2025

I like the idea of god steering us away from things that maybe bad for us even if we dont see them as such.

@sadcat13

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User Profile: sadcat13
sadcat13 August 6th, 2025

@Creamyyy yessssss, I don't always enjoy the process but looking back, I can always see why things happened 

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User Profile: Yoursafeplace1999
Yoursafeplace1999 August 6th, 2025

I’d wait. I might feel sad, maybe frustrated at times but I know it’s all because of my human nature. But deep down, I will always trust him, his judgement and his timing. I might get upset but I know for a fact I would never stop asking him for help and guidance. Allah always does what’s best for us

User Profile: Creamyyy
Creamyyy August 6th, 2025

I think it's a test of faith.

When we are denied what we want - do we become rebellious against god, do we stop trusting that god is still our friend and benefactor, or do we continue to work with our imperfect confidence and not give up.

It happened to me recently. And I think it'll happen again. Im learning both life skills and faith.

I think... Blessings are there to check our gratitude. Hardships are there to check our patience. The results are not in our hands, they are divinely ordained. Our job is to use our faculty of reason and endeavor to deliver the highest we understand.

@warmCherry5710

User Profile: keytofix370
keytofix370 November 24th, 2025

Patient and things in reverse

User Profile: keytofix370
keytofix370 November 24th, 2025

Patient and things in reverse

User Profile: sadcat13
sadcat13 November 24th, 2025

@warmCherry5710 it depends on what it is, because each situation is unique.

- if it is a smaller thing like being in charge of organizing the company event and things going to chaos, it´s an opportunity to ask for help, make connections or just show responsibility by having a meeting with whoever you are doing it for about it so it can get fixed in time if it´s not something in your power


- if it is a thing that keeps going bad more and more no matter how hard you pray but is technically dependent on your decisions (like school, career, relationships, friendships, plans etc), it usually means you should let go and make a major change, as something doesn´t seem to be meant for you and there is something better for you out there.


- if it´s a thing completely out of human control like illness, mortality, or other things that we can do absolutely nothing about no matter what, then there is nothing to be done, except making peace with the reality of life, whatever it may be and seeking comfort in prayer and possibly therapy or your loved ones support.


So really, it all comes down to what the thing getting worse is. Hope this was at least somewhat useful 😅

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User Profile: sadcat13
sadcat13 November 24th, 2025

oh come on i´m getting so old i forgot i already replied to this post 😭

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