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[What Do I Do?] I want to confront someone, but I'm scared...

User Profile: Laura
Laura July 19th, 2018

It can be scary to confront people because....

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User Profile: sighfers
sighfers July 19th, 2018

i feel im just overhinking the situation and being dramatic and just completely wrong, i also don't want to offend the other person

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User Profile: sighfers
sighfers July 19th, 2018

@sighfers and then i overempathise its just too much like im currently dealing with a situation right now where im struggling to confront a friend and its just making my head hurt like hell

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User Profile: courageousone
courageousone July 19th, 2018

When it comes to confronting someone you don't know how they are going to respond. It's like flipping a coin. Plus it all depends on the situation and how you approach them. Keeping calm, making eye contact and using a calm voice can go along way.

User Profile: FaithfulFriend12
FaithfulFriend12 July 19th, 2018

not scary for me cheeky

User Profile: MommaCat094
MommaCat094 July 19th, 2018

They never believe me. They never believe anyone until it is too late

User Profile: raspberryDrum6106
raspberryDrum6106 July 19th, 2018

Because I think I might be in the wrong? Because they carry more value than me? (Wrong but powerful)

and for friends because a lot of people want to hear a certain line and if you deviate from that it can cause pain or open up a discussion that might be very heavy. Trying to become more real in terms of what I think personally I should try to express at least a little of in conversation out of respect to them and their ability to handle it (not pre-determining what they can and cannot cope with)

User Profile: CookieBears
CookieBears July 19th, 2018

People can be super unpredictable.

User Profile: terreneLights
terreneLights July 19th, 2018

People often misunderstand what I say.

User Profile: HopeLives2216
HopeLives2216 July 19th, 2018

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User Profile: OtakuShadow
OtakuShadow July 19th, 2018

I feel like everything's gonna go wrong and I'm going to lose all my friends because I wanted to stand up for myself

User Profile: Ang0825
Ang0825 July 19th, 2018

For me sometimes confronting people can be a bit scary because u have the fear of losing something like the person or u dont know how they will react either in my case some people take advantage and hold things over your head so it makes it a bit harder to be able to confront them

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User Profile: OPinyon
OPinyon July 20th, 2018

@Adrjust1

VERY True!

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User Profile: Ang0825
Ang0825 July 20th, 2018

@OPinyon

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