[What Do I Do?] I want to confront someone, but I'm scared...
You won
because some people like myself could be holding in alot of negative things, and when you confront them they could react in a way that your not expecting them to , and that can lead to someone getting hurt or dead
The fear of how a person will react can be terrifying. It can feel like you are wandering into the unknown and that is pretty freighting.
@Laura
there are close-minded people who will find a way to put the blame on you.
loosing them as a friend or support
@fluffyUnicorns84 I'm always worried that they didn't mean to do the thing that bothered me so much and they'll think I'm just overreacting and blowing things out of proportion. Then they won't want to talk to me anymore.
@Trillians so relate <3 or whether it is just me making a big deal out of things.
@fluffyUnicorns84 Totally, and I feel like I never confront people. So even when I should I really don't know how to start?
You don't know how they will react and if their feelings will get hurt.
You can't predict the reaction. You can try, but you can never be certain until after
Don't know what to say to people or how to keep a conversation going afraid it will end in awkward silence and they will think negatively about me
They might not understand or judge you even tell others and make you feel uncomfortable
