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[What Do I Do?] I want to confront someone, but I'm scared...

User Profile: Laura
Laura July 19th, 2018

It can be scary to confront people because....

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User Profile: AnxiousGem13
AnxiousGem13 July 19th, 2018

I think it is because people in general are unpredictable and you can only control the way you will react.

User Profile: Kenzie129
Kenzie129 July 19th, 2018

You dont know how theyll respond. And even if they are supportive of whatever it is your confronting them about, sometimes its still hard to be vulnerable and put yourself out there.

User Profile: Introverta1
Introverta1 July 19th, 2018

..they're people

User Profile: TotosHeaven
TotosHeaven July 19th, 2018

Because you don't know how they will react

User Profile: creativeCar6208
creativeCar6208 July 19th, 2018

the fear of saying the wrong thing and offending someone by mistake (which has happened before)

User Profile: peacefulDreamer90
peacefulDreamer90 July 19th, 2018

You never know what they will say, if they understand. Youlol scared theyll never know your situation and be able to help. Its more then just letting someone in but letting your control go.

User Profile: rhlvrma94
rhlvrma94 July 19th, 2018

The fear that they will see our mistakes which makes us super vulnerable

User Profile: Dontletyourselfdown
Dontletyourselfdown July 19th, 2018

Because you might lose them forever.... or they won't accept their mistakes....

User Profile: Shadow3783
Shadow3783 July 19th, 2018

It's scary to confront people for me because I always worry I have misunderstood what they said/did and that I am misreading the situation.

User Profile: Zeraphim
Zeraphim July 19th, 2018

I'm terrified of them screaming at me, hurting me, or punishing me (whether immediately or later, when I'm not expecting it).