Anyone else feel this way?
@Panda2026
I would say more like bewildered...
I find myself questioning motives, especially when someone is overly complimentary. My brain goes too..
Ok, what do they want from me? Good luck trying to get it 🧐😂
Both those make sense and sound rational 😭 I just straight up start feeling like im going to be attacked or am in trouble or am literally being threatened or like theyre going to do something bad to me 😭😭😭😭
@Panda2026 There are always reasons why, we feel the way we do. On the other side though, there have been times where I've been talked to nicely or shown a kindness too and they haven't expected anything back.
Eventually maybe when you experience decent consistency and there's no malice behind it, maybe then it won't be so traumatic for you.
@Panda2026
I am going to do somewhat of an about face. While I am bemused when I receive kindness, by nature, I am a nurturing person. As far back as I can remember, I had pets. With that being said, I became a Daddy at an early age. Then in my early 20's, I went into a supervisor role, and again, I was Daddy. It is just in my nature to look out for other people. Kindness goes along with that path.
