Being useless
Anyone else hate themselves so violently like goooooosh I suck so bad I went to this birthday party with someone i know and some other people and i literally tried my best to socialise, smiling every time. I swear i tried my best but still everyone ignores me. I seriously dont know what the * is wrong with me because if i knew id xhange it right away ill do it whatever it takes but its like im a *** piece of trash and i cant change that ever. No matter how hard i try people dont like me no one wants to be my friend this is trash lol
@froggiep
You are most certainly not thrash.
I'm sorry you felt like you couldn't relate 💚
@Amanda84
Thanks 🫶😁
@froggiep Ohhh no! I'm sorry you felt ignored at the birthday party despite trying your best to be sociable. Please don't hate yourself or feel like you're trash. I assure you, you're not! It may not feel like it now, but one day you find your own tribe. One day you will find people who actually want to be around you, people who like you, and people who accept you for just being yourself. It's ok to be not everyone's cup of tea. Just please be true to yourself. There's people who will appreciate you just how you come. Be patient please. Please be kind to yourself in your thinking. This feeling will subside, 🐸. Your people will find you. I hope that things get better for you. Sending positivity your way. 💚
@YourCaringConfidant
Thank you so much, that really did change my mind : ) I was really frustrated at that moment so it always feels hopeless whenever i dont achieve it but i know i have so much left to live and i can still change. Im just really desperate to have friends but i forget that it really takes time, and seeing others really makes me jealous, i guess
@froggiep Awww, it's perfectly understandable that you feel the way you do. There's nothing wrong with wanting to make friends and to fit in and belong. That will come for you. Just be patient. Until, just keep being a good person and be yourself. <3 And remember: quality over quantity. :) I hope you have a happy day.
@froggiep
dont say that socailizing is a skill and some are born with strong socializing skills and some are born with little but as any skill it can be improved over long period of time dont go trying ur hardest thinking ur going to finally unlock it it takes a long time step by step and u already started ur steps by first knowing that ur not good at it and seconding trying to improve it just keep going
@enthusiasticApple7016
Thank you😅 I knew it already but at the moment of writing that i was feeling very bad so i just let all those thoughts out. I know i can learn to improve it but it feels so difficult so im still scared that i wont be able to achieve it but ill keep trying
It’s okay like even I am bad at socialising and you are not trash it takes time to find like right type of people in life
@compassionateHuman852
Thanks : ) Guess im just a bit desperate, because ive been trying for so long lol