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User Profile: Derickregio
Derickregio May 30th, 2025

Recently I've been struggling with lack of self esteem as for I feel everyone is on another level, more advanced than I am, more mature, people keep telling me I should be more mature and act my age whole even my friends keep making mean jokes on me.

What should I do?

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 May 30th, 2025

@Derickregio I'm sorry people are being mean to you 😥 don't listen to them the happiest people on earth are those who don't grow up💖 I've never matured and I'm happy being me 💖 I also understand people seem to be on a higher level in life, with education and everything🙁 I felt really inadequate to everyone else for a long time, thought everyone was better than me cleverer than me, so I know how hard it is, bless you 🙁 I hope soon you'll start to feel better in your own skin and we are all here to pick you up when your feeling low 💖 gives you a giant tiny hug 💗 you are perfect just the way you are 💖

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 May 30th, 2025

@Tinywhisper11 listen to the lyrics to the song 'what's my age again' by blink 182 💖

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User Profile: indigofera6
indigofera6 May 31st, 2025

@Derickregio

It's normal to think this way. I definitely have been there and still catch myself at times thinking that everyone else has it figured out and is doing better than I am. The truth is, we have all struggled and it just may come in waves. Also, when we are feeling okay we don't usually notice how other people are doing, but we may be the ones who are being seen as having it all figured out. There's no need to think there is something wrong with you. Also, comparing yourself is a natural thing but it can make us feel bad if we get fixated on it.