I'm good for nothing
I'm working but not good at work, I'm a daughter, sister, wife, daighter in law, mother but can't find anyone satisfied with me in any relation I made. I love cooking but I end up making mess, I used to do paintings but now I just get phobia that I'll ruin it as well like I've ruined my whole life. I don't know how to make everyone happy and majorly myself happy.. I want to renew the life that I am living 😭
@loyalLemon6534
It is not your responsibility to make others happy. You can only do the best you can in the moment. jobs some days we have good days others we are making errors or struggling . the difference in most are we do not internalize it and let it stick in our mind of "remember that one thing i totally messed up.... "
It is same way with most tasks when we stress things must be perfect we will fall short. we will let ourselves down. That is OK we can do the best we can and embrace it instead of pointing out the flaws. in relationships people really are not judging you as harshly as you are of yourself.
I find the biggest challenge is our attitude and many things i told myself i could not do ... i did when i changed my attitude about it.
@lonelylime6548I'm really sorry you’re feeling this way. It sounds overwhelming to carry so many roles and feel like you’re falling short in each. Remember, you don’t have to be perfect to be loved or valued. It’s okay to make mistakes—they don’t define your worth or your life. Starting small can help: try focusing on one thing you enjoy, like cooking or painting, without pressure—just for yourself, not to please others. Self-compassion is key; treat yourself with the same kindness you’d offer a friend. If you want, I can share some gentle steps or strategies to help you renew your sense of joy and confidence. You deserve happiness, and it’s possible to find it again.