Limerence
I dont know if Links are allowed but this video is enlightening.
https://youtu.be/3ZPnAntJUkA?si=0vSDep4j7owmWS17
https://youtu.be/Qye2FBfEImw?si=eTbmz42Jx0yrJSVe
Another enlightening video for us "Hopeless Romantics"
@DaveMarx I needed this, I'm 30-40 seconds in the first video and I'm already like 'this is me' I don't feel enough and I'm just dragged into this for the past year now, and she knows I love her so much but she never reciprocates...
I've been fighting ang givinng love for the past year and she blocked me a month ago to come back last week and nnow she's like 'I don't have any feelings anymore and don't want to develop any'
We have to find someone who is going to understand us and will try not to play with us. She's not good for you. She never was. This idea of who she might could be... that's not real. What is real is who she has proven to be. That doesn't make her a necessarily bad person. But definitely not one that cares for you.
Someone out there wants to care for you. Don't leave them waiting just so you can cling to the wrong person.
@DaveMarx somehow I've known for probably like 7-8 months already but I chose not to detach because of what she had gone through (her ex committed suicide in the house she still lives in) and I thought her situation would hold her back like she told me she wasnt ready yet....but then again last year in august she told me she saw a future in me and she wanted it to be me ... but never moved to actions and somehow I knew that when actions don't follow it can't be real ... but somehow it seems like she has complete control over me whenever she comes back in my life I'll start off by being more distant but in a matter of hours or days she can wrap me around her finger and she knows, but then still she says she's not playing me and she just wants to stay friends but keeps giving me mixed signals, I don't know why life has to hit so hard ....
@easyWheel7627 and at this moment I still dont know how to detach, I could block her on everything but I would probably unblock her faster than I'd block her
I think, like with drugs, it's more about replacing one thing with another. Especially if you can't get away from the presence of what hurts you. You have to actually find someone else. I think us hopeless romantics need to love someone. But we still get to decide who.
