Me and my unfortunate self esteem
Ok i feel bad about myself, my body and face. I genuinely don't know why like i really really hate my body I am deiting it's getting better but whenever I see my face i spiral a lot I cry i hate it.
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It sounds really painful to feel that way about yourself, and I’m really glad you shared it. Those spirals can feel so heavy, and they don’t make you any less worthy. You’re not what those harsh moments say you are; you’re someone who’s hurting, not someone who’s “wrong.” You deserve so much more kindness than your mind gives you. 💛
Thank you so much for your kindness means a lot to me. But I do struggle with these spirals when my ego is hurt or I don't like the way my face looks that day.
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Thank you 😭
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A pleasure 💚
I'm sorry you're going through this 💙
I think @colorfulPanda8664 put it perfectly- you deserve more kindness than your mind gives you, I think 💙 it sounds so exhausting to spiral again and again like that
I wonder if maybe a listener here on Cups could help? You may still spiral, but at least someone will be there to sit in it beside you 💙 feel free to reach out to me or any other listener, we'd all be happy to help
Sending hugs 💙
Thx for understanding 😭
Hello,you're very brave for sharing this,thank you!<3
This seems like something horrible and really hard to go through. I understand it's really tough to love yourself when you don't look the way you want to,but your body is always there to help you. It pumps blood for you to stay alive,it digests food and makes you taste it,it protects you from viruses...I would suffer a lot as well if I were in your situation,and you deserve the whole world for being so strong and trying to change this situation. I'm proud of you for being so strong! Oh and,flowers grow one at the side of the other. They don't wonder about which one of them is prettier,because they're all beautiful. And so are humans: gorgeous beings with an interesting and complex system inside of them. Have a wonderful day,and a beautiful healing journey!💞
I don’t understand, but want to say a saw a south asian with bleached skin whiter than a white woman with tanned.
Society goes to great lengths to protect women your age from those who want you for your body and face. When old you will see you are attractive now.
Social media is scary for men my age as everything looks ai. Ai will always be prettier than you you are human not your face and body.
My sister was incredibly pretty was insecure she felt as i was clever. I felt unattractive. What we gad in common was parents that were better than most but incapable of giving everything we needed.
You can learn from pros for you and hopefully others.
I don’t understand, but want to say a saw a south asian with bleached skin whiter than a white woman with tanned.
Society goes to great lengths to protect women your age from those who want you for your body and face. When old you will see you are attractive now.
Social media is scary for men my age as everything looks ai. Ai will always be prettier than you you are human not your face and body.
My sister was incredibly pretty was insecure she felt as i was clever. I felt unattractive. What we gad in common was parents that were better than most but incapable of giving everything we needed.
You can learn from pros for you and hopefully others.
