Ruining my Relationship
I find that it is almost.a habit now to look at myself and find flaws, I have random thoughts thats put myself down. I cant accepts compliments because i don’t believe anything that is being said. It is really affecting my relationship with my lover because he tries so hard to make me feel loved and beautiful but I genuinely believe nothing he says. i hate the feeling of just being unhappy with myself, I wish that I could stop.
@Simplyx
In order to really be in a relationship fully...... you need to fall in love with yourself. too...
we all have flaws but we need to move on from that and see our best features as others see them.
If your lover says you are beautiful and they like this or that .... love between two is not about if that person is perfect and what they look like to others etc....
why is it you do not believe them ? you do not like that part of you OR they are not truthful in general?
I have a love who loves me as is .........and knowing that i no longer stress the small imperfections in myself that at one point i felt were obvious.... my person may not be traditional good looking either but i see something that just makes me smile. it is from inside...... i see in their eyes their aurora.
perhaps your love sees you that way also