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Self confidence and self esteem with being trans

User Profile: Oliviaadelineruth
Oliviaadelineruth August 24th, 2024

Hello I'm olivia I'm transgender I been transitioning for a year I struggle with self confidence and self esteem with trying to be myself and express my inner girl I love dressing like a girl it's just when the bullying and the constantly being starred at it makes me feel really sad and uncomfortable and it makes. Me change my outfit and wipe my makeup etc off so I quit getting Made fun of I hope this post finds someone who can give me advice and help me improve myself and my self confidence with being my true feminine self

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User Profile: Aayla
Aayla September 1st, 2024
@Oliviaadelineruth hi! I'm sorry about what you're going through, you're simply trying to express yourself and it's unfair that some people are treating like it's something to make fun of. It's normal to have moments of insecurity when you feel the need to "hide" yourself to feel safer. Confidence takes a lot of time to build, don't be too hard on yourself if you're still having trouble with it. It doesn't make your identity any less valid or strong!

If you can, try to reach out to supportive people who can understand you and provide you a safe place to express yourself. Even better if they are part of the LGBT community themselves, they would be even more likely to relate with what you're going through. Reach out to LGBT circles or organizations near you, it will help to know you're not alone in this!

Whether you do it in private or in public, don't stop expressing your gender in ways that make you feel good and in contact with your true self. You deserve to feel free. Stay strong! 🌈