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Struggling with self esteem issues and loneliness

User Profile: Shygirl2828
Shygirl2828 June 12th, 2025

I feel I am not smart, very dumb and have nothing to talk to. how can I become smart and confident? I am very lonely and want to make friends but epople leave me very soon

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User Profile: Bryghton
Bryghton June 13th, 2025

@Shygirl2828

Hi. I'm sorry you're feeling this way. Loneliness is a tough feeling for sure, but that isn't your fault. Friendship and other relationships aren't born from intelligence, it's from connection and being able to vibe with each other. 

So I hope you can be kinder to yourself. A confident person doesn't talk down on themselves. I know it can be hard to say nice things to ourselves, but confidence starts by being comfortable with being ourselves.

Be gentle with yourself, I'm sure you're doing your best and that's enough, you're amaizng for doing that. 

User Profile: Shygirl2828
Shygirl2828 OP June 13th, 2025

Thank you so much caring to respond.

User Profile: HealingPuppy
HealingPuppy June 14th, 2025

I feel same way

User Profile: HealingPuppy
HealingPuppy June 14th, 2025

I feel same way