What should I do in this situation

Oops did it twice

@chazza2011 I'm sorry you feel like you have to change who you are so this female notices you. May I ask why you feel like the issue is with you? Someone who genuinely likes you will like and accept you for you. You shouldn't have to change x about you or y about you to get attention. Of course, there's nothing wrong with wanting to change for the betterment of yourself, but I'm sure there's great qualities about you. Don't let someone be the reason you alter or change who you really are for a crush that may just be temporary. 

I will share with you what I shared with my daughter...

In life, there will always be people who may not like you or find you attractive and that it ok. If someone doesn't like something about you, it may be hard to hear, but it's ok. What matters is if you like you and are happy with yourself. If someone does not like your hair, how you dress, etc... are you supposed to change that too to people please? Then what? You change and change because of people... all the while people never change themselves. Live a life that you can be happy with. Live a life you can feel secure and content with the skin you are in and the amazing person you are. There will be people who will notice it and people who will accept and love you just the way you are!

If you do want to change and work on yourself, do so for the right reasons please. Because you genuinely want to be the best version of you. Please take care of yourself and goodluck!