Self-Harm Recovery Daily Check-In: Monday, April 13th, 2020
Happy Monday amazing people!
How are you doing?
Which goals/objectives/plans would you like to focus on this week?
What do you put in your own circle of self-care (like in the illustration)?
Take good care of your amazing selves, stay safe and hugs for those who want them x
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How are you doing? - Pretty good for now. I just got up a couple of minutes ago and got on my computer to look at what school work I got for today. And I've only slept an hour for the past two days and I have no clue why.
Which goals/objectives/plans would you like to focus on this week? - Sleeping more
What do you put in your own circle of self-care (like in the illustration)? - I don't know, the same things that are on it now, but instead of coffee, it's tea.
@LogyBear
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@LinearWaves
My day got worse and then better, I guess. My mom yelled at my brother and me for draining the battery in her car when it wasn't us. She calmed down though and forgave us. We're both grounded for a week though. But my Nana came over and gave us Easter candy.
As for the tea. I mostly only drink peach tea and peppermint tea. I'll have peach tea if I don't want to actually make it because it's just a Snapple bottle. If I feel like making tea, I'll make peppermint tea. We also have a few other tea types in the house, but I don't really like them.
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I was clean for a whole year then today I did it and I hated myself after and I just want to pretend it never happened because I was so happy Id made it a year and I cant tell anyone because theyre all proud of me but I cant keep it to myself Im so upset
@Caitlin2002
Hey there! Congrats on making it a year! That
@LinearWaves I told my best friend and she was really supportive and I tried to hide it from my boyfriend but I hate keeping secrets from him so I told him and he got mad and said he needed space so Im waiting to hear from him but its all making me want to do it again since Ive ruined the whole year thing whats the point
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@LinearWaves he did get mad but he said it was only because he wants me to be happy and healthy, we talked and he forgave me and said well move past it. I think it needed to happen in a way because Id always wanna do it but now after almost losing his and seeing what affect it had I dont want to anymore its like its going away. I know its too early to say that but I dont feel held back by it anymore. Me and my boyfriend are back to normal and Im so happy, Im gonna make him, my best friend and myself proud again by reaching a year again and to keep going after that. Thank you for your support it honestly meant a lot because I had no one yesterday and reading your post really brought back some hope
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How are you doing? - I'm doing good. Been tired and drained but going with the flow.
Which goals/objectives/plans would you like to focus on this week?- I want to keep up working out every other day if my body allows it. I want to keep finding a good healthy routine that suits me.
What do you put in your own circle of self-care (like in the illustration)? - Pretty much the samething. Other then maybe add spending time with my pets.
@Goldcherry2113
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@LinearWaves
How are you doing?
Oh well, life is not that good, but it's getting better. Just looking forward to get out of this house. Moving in two days and even if my anxiety levels is high bc of that, I feel like stuff will get better when I move. I do hope it does, bc at least I can get away from my mom. That a plus in my book.
I have just been relaxing all day. Had a disapointing meeting on Discord with my RPG-group. One of the guys in the group is an a**, and has before this meeting called me an attentionseeking whore, so I'm quite mad at him. I think he is lost for empathy and he is a a**hole. I wish I could just be free of him, but he kinda gets under my skin by just being in the group. I wish he would leave. Everything was better, not drama no nothing, before he came.
"Fun" thing is: I can't cut. I accidently packed down my blades and knifes and all that, and I'm a little on the edge after that meeting. I just want to cut, but I physically can't. Guess God is laughing at me right now. I just panicked when my mom found the box and quickly packed it on one of the boxes. And it's now at my new apartment. I don't know which one.
Which goals/objectives/plans would you like to focus on this week?
Well, just focusing on getting used to my new apartment and being on my own. Mostly what I will focus on today. And try to eat "right".
What do you put in your own circle of self-care (like in the illustration)?
Stuff like sleep and reading. Maybe writing too I really like that. Eating enough/right slash recovering from my ED should be on there too. Maybe also working out. Like yoga, bikerides and walks. I don't know what else though...
@EvilRegalsReadToo
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@LinearWaves
Yeah except that my mom wants to decide what goes where and all that jazz. But I'm just gonna put it where I want it, when she goes home 
I have tried to talk to them about it, the admins, but he has three strikes, before he gets kicked out. We have rules though, and they have talked to him about it, but he has only used 2 out of 3 strikes. Second strike was calling the what I said before.
I really do want to cut, but I have been able to find other stuff to do. Like my bikerides and such, but even then I just can't seem to get over the urges fully. But at least I'm trying to not do it. Oh well I can't as my blades are in my new apartment, so I can't do it anyway. Guess that's a good thing right?
That's really great yeah. Tomorrow I might add stuff I have forgotten today.
Thank you! 
@EvilRegalsReadToo
Lol I did the exact same when moving out! The next time my mother visited, she saw everything moved and actually said it looked better that way ha!
Well Ill just be there secretly hoping he gets a third strike soon enough *oops*
I hope this time of urges but no way to cut can be helpful in the long term, I know it isnt a pleasant feeling at all but maybe there is some extra good in that as it can be a step in your recovery since youre learning to delay the urges and not act on them, even if its forced.
Youre very welcome! Have a good day!
@LinearWaves
How are you doing?
I'm doing okay this morning! :) I did a new yoga video this morning along with ARM workouts (I usually only do abs) which was a new twist to my morning routine and I feel pretty good. I also took some time to take a break this morning from everything and allowed myself to watch a youtube video and draw on my computer which was nice.
Which goals/objectives/plans would you like to focus on this week? I want to focus on self-care and exercising more this week!
What do you put in your own circle of self-care (like in the illustration)? Why is my own self care circle literally like the illustration lol..
@TheAtticusFinch
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