Self-Harm Recovery Daily Check-In: Sunday, October 18th, 2020
hey hey you lovelies! Welcome and happy Sunday! I hope you all had a wonderful week! <3
Today I would like to chat a bit about others and their influence over us. the way we interact with people, and they choose to interact with us back can be really important in growing, learning, and moving foward.
here are some fun questions for you all about it! <3

Today's check-in questions:
1.How are you? Is there anything you would like to share or talk about with us?
2. Do you know any people in your life who influence you, and how you act?
3. What is your favorite animal if you have one?
Thanks for checking in with us!! I hope you have a lovely week! <3
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1.How are you? Is there anything you would like to share or talk about with us?
im good. didn't check my grades last quarter and i decided to do that yesterday. turns out i wasn't failing the entire time lol. i went from 5As & 1B & 1C to 6As & 1B but i never knew cause i was to scared to look at the grade book, so i'm happy about that. second quarter started less than a week ago so i hope i get similar, maybe better, results.
2. Do you know any people in your life who influence you, and how you act?
my best friend. her attitude and outlook on life makes me want to better myself.
3. What is your favorite animal if you have one?
snakes are pretty cool, and jaguars too :)
@lydiarklistens hey there!! I am happy to hear you are feeling well! I understand it may have been scary to check your grades, but I am really glad you found out some good news! That must have been really relieving! Those are super good grades, congrats! I love the positive outlook, i'm sure you will do splendid!
It is great that your best friend is able to influence you in that way! I think its wonderful to have a good influence like that! and i totally agree jaguars are cool, although im not a huge fan of snakes haha :p
Thanks for checking in with us! I hope you have a lovely day!
@enchantedlove
1.How are you? Is there anything you would like to share or talk about with us?
Ans. Hello, I am good, thank you. Well, nothing I can think of. Um...I have been reading a psychotic crime thriller, if that counts?
2. Do you know any people in your life who influence you, and how you act?
Ans. I do, yes. I act differently around different people.
3. What is your favorite animal if you have one?
Ans. Favourite animal. Wild- Wolves. They are myamy favourite.
Pet- Dogs and rabbits.
@Textingpals
hey hey pals!! thanks for checkin in! I am glad to hear you are well! A psychotic crime thriller totally counts! That sounds amazing! Hope you enjoy it!
About acting differently around different people, I am the exact same way! I completely understand that!
I too love dogs!!! Rabbits are super cute, and i find wolves intriguing! Thanks for checkin in! I hope you have a lovely day!
Hi. i am good. just wanted to put this question out there.
I have scars that i have had for a long time. i hide them and sorta hate them but now that they are finally starting to fade away a little, i don't think i want them to go away. It's not like it symbolizes anything good in my life but for some reason i don't want them to go away. i have made progress enough to assure u that i wont you know, make sure the scars don't go away. hopefully i do nothing of that sort. i just don't understand this. why? why do i want them?
i am trying not to spend a lot of time thinking about this because it may bring back my urges to do something.
i would love to listen if anyone of u have something for me
@marely67
Hey there! I am glad you are feeling well! About your question, I understand how you may be feeling this way! It can seem really scary to just have such a big part of your life, or something that you have been dealing with for a while just go away like that! I am really proud of you for all the progress you have made, i know it is really really tough. I am not quite sure why you may feel this way, everyone reacts differently, and maybe just having something that has been with you for so long, to disappear will make you upset. It is all part of the recovery process. We will always be here to listen love! Never forget, you are never ever ever alone! You always have me :D <3 *offers hugs* thanks for checking in! Have a nice day!!
@enchantedlove Thank you so much for the hugs *more hugs*.
What you said makes a lot of sense. These scars have been with me longer than any person in my life and i guess i have some weird relation with them. I have legit had nightmare and insecurites about these scars and knowing i dont want to let them go its just....weird and confusing. I am glad i can talk here 
@enchantedlove
I could be better, my parents affect how I act the most, and Fox is my favorite animal