Here Again
I fought with my best friend, on Friday and Saturday. I started telling her how she only thought about herself and that I wanted her to get out of my life. All of our friends have told me how she was always there for me, and that I should apologize cause it wasn't her fault, the thing is I know telling her that was wrong, but I don't really want to apologize.
@Corintia15399
Why don't you want to apologize if you know you shouldn't have said something? What are you afraid of?
@Corintia15399
Hey there,
I was brought up to apologise for my actions if I had done something wrong, or, caused harm, whether this was intentional or not, and even if the apology makes you feel all kinds of emotions, it's the right thing to do. The reason why I am saying this, is because, it take only a few seconds to say hurtful comments, but the person on the receiving end, those comments can last a life time, and can cause some damage.
I don't know what you guys were fighting about, but do you really want you friend to hurt unnecessarily? Even when you have admitted you were in the wrong? Can you try and imagine if your friend had said this to you, and how you would feel?
Is it really worth risking a friendship, when all you need to do is sit down and talk to her calmly, apologise for your actions? I'm not telling you do to this, I'm asking you to think about it.
Either way, you may want to try alternative ways to communicate when your feeling frustrated, for your own well being.
Take care