I need some help
Last Tuesday, our group planned to have a meeting at our school to make bracelets for our entrepreneurship fair, but i couldn't come because i overslept, well i woke up a bit late than 9:30 am and they messaged me about where i am but i couldn't bring myself to even open the chats and see the messages so i didn’t go to the meeting and instead turned off the read receipts opened their messages without letting them see that i actually read it, it’s like leaving them on delivered.
on their day i skipped one school day. when i messaged my friend why i couldn't be at school, i told her that i had a fever, when in reality i didn't actually have it
when my groupmates kept mentioning my name in our gc, i just left them on delivered completely for days and i'm just blaming myself for doing something so wrong and stupid from the very beginning
i honestly don't know how to face them and plus i left them on delivered for 4 days
and i did this for more than 2 times
i need to stop this but i don’t know how
@sensitivePomegranate9817
Hi! I totally understand where you are coming from it can be scary and maybe feel ashamed to oversleep and miss something important. But you don't need to! Everyone oversleeps and it is a very human thing that unfortunately gets to the best of us (me included). I understand why you are avoiding it and blaming yourself but you don't need to. Its ok and I hope you can figure out a way to help yourself find the confidence to keep going (:
@sensitivePomegranate9817
Hi Pomegranate. I understand how confusing waking up late can be, as it makes our routines very disturbed. It seems to me that on this specific day, the confusion was a bit too much for you to cope with. I want you to know that this is okay. Sometimes we have difficult days, and we need a break. I see you and how upset you felt by not being able to do what you wanted to, going and replying. But it's okay that you didn't, maybe you needed that time off. Something that can be helpful in moments of this is showing ouselves some kindness, accepting that we cannot change the past and look foward to the future, to what we can do today ❤️
If you need, feel free to reach out to me.es thtimes