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Welcome to Student Support!
by tommy
Last post
 August 31st
...See more We’re so happy that you’ve stumbled across our little corner of the internet. You can use this sub-community to discuss anything and everything related to studies, student life, test anxiety and anything in between. Our biggest goal is to support people on their special journey, and we’re confident you’ll love it here! We would love to be able to get to know you a little bit better and welcome you properly. Why not introduce yourself? You can either post a new thread or post below. Maybe you'd like to start by telling us your name/nickname and a fun fact? 📣 Bolded, underlined and red highlighted text are clickable links 📣 ------------------------- FAQ 📌 Is this sub-community just for students? No, it is for everyone. No matter where you are in life, you can post about all things student related. There will also be lots of fun icebreakers and games too! 📌 What is a tag list? Tag lists allow us to keep you updated with any important or exciting threads (such as check-ins, updates etc) by notifying you. You can add yourself to the tag list here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/StudentCareerSupport_114/SubcommunityTeam_850/StudentSupportAutomatedTaglist_204108/1/]. 📌 How do I navigate the sub-community? You can find a handy guide here [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1SU1-CqJ4zlgbIJGww9TQhtkl8EtEha3pqYDQAGK_6ac/edit?usp=sharing] on how to find your way around our forum. 📌 What topic do I label my thread as? You can find an explanation of the different topics and some other useful information here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/StudentCareerSupport_114/WelcomesandIntroductions_1995/AnIntroductiontoStudentCareerCommunity_219473/]. 📌 Do we have a live group chat? Yes! We have a student support group chat that opens every Saturday (EST time). You can find the chatroom when it's open here [https://www.7cups.com/chat/?c=mGNmeHqdlOJO42driIiT]. 📌 I'm not from the USA... is that OK? Yes! We are very lucky that members and listeners connect from all over the world. You may find this [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/7cupstime] useful to translate the 7Cups time to your own timezone. 📌 I have a suggestion that’ll really help improve the sub-community! That’s great news! We’d love to hear (and implement!) your suggestions. Please share them here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScP0hfc-WaXXB1SqrN0yE3Ho-12rxPM_x8i_nfJgid_Fg8UYw/viewform]. 📌 I’d love to join the team. What do I do? We’d love to have you on our little team. You can apply here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/7cupsleadership/SubcommunitiesInformation_2314/UpdatedSubcommunityTrackLeadershipRolesMasterpost2023_289838/] and someone will get back to you. 📌 I have another question… Post it down below and someone will get back to you ☺️ ------------------------- click here for a special surprise [https://i.imgur.com/qDHQCmC.png]
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Student Support Automated Taglist
by Tazzie
Last post
 August 26th
...See more Welcome to the Student Support Taglist! This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated and can be found below. Please direct any questions or issues to tommy [https://www.7cups.com/@tommy] via private message. Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on the weekly check-ins ✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button above and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Updated taglist on 5 March 2024 by faithfulzareia @Adamw12 @AddictedTealover98 @adventurousCherry1905 @ajw99 @Apeatrice @apobangpo @ArjunAS22 @Arius6250 @AveryLove @azureOwl6812 @BellatheHappyHelper @BenjaminLee23 @BlackRose1832 @BookChunky @caffeinatedcatio @Callmemav @calmKermit7178 @calmingSummer5564 @captainmajesty @CarthageSea @charmingSky5972 @Cherry1686 @CleverPinky12 @comfortteddy @considerateParadise6717 @considerateWalker6214 @crang17 @Dan001 @dancedance @Daydreamer47 @DayDreamWithYou @DinaElwy @Dino12 @diplomaticPerson3739 @DreamTouch @dynamicHemlock1736 @fairmindedCucumber6742 @FaithfulZareia @freehugs123 @Gagaintheroom @Grace8402 @GreatestClassiest @HappyTree906 @hardworkingThinker6293 @healinghearts0718 @herealways27 @honeypie720 @hopezzy @inesovski @inventiveAcai3503 @Ishuba2023 @ItsJoel @ivitheebimbo @iwishuwell @izu201ph @Jaeteuk @jKempy @jrob77 @Kassy7cups @KateDoskocilova  @Keith22534 @lovelyButterfly2844@LucyGray1799 @lyricalAngel70 @MariWhale @Memisse @mistke @munchiegoosie @nadiasaleh26 @NataliaD2024 @notjustsomeone @NotKhan2 @Oxymoron6demon @parisayano @Pip9007 @powerfulPark3549 @powerfulPine1547 @Purplerain00001 @relaxSea @RideaRainbow @risingsun008 @rosymaplemoth @SachaSathi @SarcasticKat @Saturn0515 @SavoyTruffle20 @silverSpace375 @softForest4843 @SparklingSnowflake15 @StanDaMan78 @Stardew3 @summersmith15 @SupportiveMitch @sweetrosa1987 @Taylorvoga12605 @TessMo @TheAtticusFinch @TheGoldenHand @TheGoodFairy @theheartproject @tidyHickory3283 @Toast048 @Tobedoctor @Tommehhhh @tommy @trueconfidant123 @UndomesticGoddess @victoriousVoice21 @warmheartedCamp3360 @wohooradhika @wonderfulMango5023 @worldclassavocadoo @YesYouMatter @Yourlifeisworthy
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Student Support needs YOUR HELP!!
by tommy
Last post
 December 3rd, 2025
...See more Student Support needs YOUR help! ------------------------- We are very lucky to have users from all around the globe come to our little corner of the internet to discuss their life journeys. We have great fun supporting one another, whether that be through school, college/university, test anxiety or anything in between. But now we need your help to continue the growth of our sub-community! There are two elements to every sub-community: the forum and the chatroom If you have any questions at all, please feel free to either drop me a message or contact @ASilentObserver (chat rooms). ------------------------- Forum Supporter A forum supporter is a leader who focuses on 1 or 2 sub-communities and maintains engagement in the forums by posting and replying to threads with compassion and support. This role requires zero behaviour points. You will also need to have been actively posting in the community before applying. Requirements for members: 25+ forum upvotes 25+ forum posts Make 10+ forum posts per month Taken the Member Oath [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Welcome_27/7CupsofTeaMissionCoreValues_207/MemberOathAllEncouragedtoParticipate_7447/1/] Requirements for listeners: Verified Listener 25+ forum upvotes 25+ forum posts Make 10+ forum posts per month Taken the Listener Community Guide [https://www.7cups.com/listener-community-guide/] & Listener Oath [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ChatResources_61/ListenerOath_117/1/] Click here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSefNgW-Va7dyBx67M3d27INmkndnwm1C3Ywa7NJoFa2EscQkA/viewform] to apply! • ──────────────────────────────────────── • Community Mentor / Teen Community Star You’re a good fit for the Community Mentor/Teen Star role if you are passionate about growing and developing a certain sub-community. You’ll be responsible for overseeing the activity and safety in your chosen area and you’ll work closely with Forum Supporters and Project Agents to bring supportive posts and events daily. Requirements: Age 15 or older Verified Listener Badge (Applicable to listeners only) one month plus as a Forum Supporter 50+ chats 50+ forum posts 50+ forum upvotes Provide links to 3 forum threads written by you Apply here! [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdIzfOAjOMLf8-RSMooTXOAKp3tFGMrKoOtfUfctB6DlI_kNg/viewform] ------------------------- Room Supporter (Student Support) A Room Supporter is responsible for helping build the community within the chat room. They help create a kind, supportive environment for users and regularly host discussions to give members a safe space to talk. Requirements for members: Friendly Face Badge Been a member for at least 4 weeks Have completed the Compassion Course [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdbuGsqFMbaKWtCoC1WHaCJfaKfwfI8YZ62CsqTI2BzqVNwDg/viewform] Requirements for listeners: Listener in the community for 4+ weeks At least 1 written review and a star rating of 3+ Be willing to send at least 50+ messages per month in your chosen group support room Click here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSetyJ7jp7W52-EIpqvFYLhfmpsgTW4BbzUwmi9r22OQ9AdH8w/viewform] to apply! • ──────────────────────────────────────── • Chatroom Moderator (Listeners Only) As a moderator in the group support room, you will be creating and maintaining a supportive and positive community culture in the member chatrooms. You'll also take lead on discussions and help maintain a safe space for users to chat. Requirements: 25+ group chats 2000+ cheers 4 or higher overall star rating on Listener profile 3+ written reviews Have Verified Listener Badge [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerProjectsampTeams_148/VerifiedListenersProjectVLProjectQualityProject_685/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/] and Graduate Badge [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe-YdSN09jvrtUJVB-HExOKQ8DkEo9ZtvoWt98zSJpe3P9Mow/viewform] No behavior reports in the past 3 months Been a Listener for at least 6 weeks Been a Room Supporter for at least 2 weeks Click here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScX7nNahJocq0tgDYBesRicWxTfExFCe5QMI-O-04K-qBjZrA/viewform] to apply!
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I wish I knew what loving and knowing myself meant.
by gentleWatermelon8652
Last post
 6 hours ago
...See more Hi. I am 18 years old at a point in life where everyone else is getting into colleges, getting good marks in entrances,know what dream to chase but me I am not able to I don't know what my dream is My parents and everyone else is giving different opinions but at the end they say it's your wish But I don't know I am scared. Engineering? Bachelor? I don't know Wish if I had my goals a little more clear If I was a little big more sincere and if my life wouldn't have so many ups and downs
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Im so tired
by Ocelot1628
Last post
 6 hours ago
...See more Im so tired, and its only the second week of school  I want to be the daughter my parents can brag about, im taking 5 weighted classes, doing the school dance team, dance outside, and gymnastics - i love all my hobbies but its just alot right now I barely have time for myself, and im getting sick, and im so sleepy and drained. I know i just need to wait until the weekend when i can chill but my body is tired and my brain is trying to do all this stuff What if im not good enough to handle this? All my friends are so smart and contribute something to the group but what i am if i can do good in life academically - i dont understand how they never crash, i dont think theyre doing more than me, i dont im just so tired
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I'm lost ....
by vegatune
Last post
 8 hours ago
...See more Hi everyone So I'm 17 years old and yesterday was my first day at university , I actually didn't chose it , you can say it came to me , I will tell you everything from the beginning: So I graduated from high school this June and I was super happy bc I got good score and I had a plan on continuing my studies at higher education but unfortunately I didn't pass any of it , I was super shocked and like not realizing what is happening with me I cried a lot I couldn't eat , because my last chance is public university that doesn't have opportunities in my country... this days i was thinking to continue my studies abroad but it is very hard for me specially I want to continue it in the US but it is very expensive and hard since I 'm gonna study one year after high school so they will consider me as a transfer moreover I have to pass" IELTS "wich I don't have enough time for it so now I'm stuck I feel like all the doors are closed but I'm putting my trust on God Plsss help me with advice, information, anything?and if there is someone there that had the same experience !!!!if there is anyone from the US or other country who is familiar with application in US universities/ financial aid/rules/documents
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Need Guidance
by jhumpaT
Last post
 October 1st
...See more I recently graduated in Mathematics and am currently preparing for a government job. But my heart has always been drawn to teaching, especially Montessori education and early childhood development. My family is supportive, but they worry about the limited opportunities and financial stability in this field. Because of this, I constantly fear failure and financial dependency, which often leaves me demotivated and unable to study consistently. How can I overcome this fear, become financially independent, stay productive, and still follow my dream of becoming a teacher?
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Need Guidance
by jhumpaT
Last post
 September 29th
...See more Hi, I’m Jhumpa. I recently graduated in Mathematics from the University of Calcutta and I’m currently preparing for government jobs. At the same time, I have a deep passion for teaching, especially nurturing children and supporting their overall development. I’m particularly interested in Montessori education and early childhood education, but I still have a lot to learn and haven’t had many opportunities to explore this field. My family wants me to choose a financially stable career because they worry that teaching and mentoring may not provide enough financial security. I want to meet people with similar interests. Sometimes, I wonder whether I’m being impractical by wanting to follow this passion. I want to build a secure and independent life while also doing something meaningful that I genuinely love. How can I balance financial stability with my dream of becoming an educator?
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Motivation struggles
by bakedbarbequebeans
Last post
 September 28th
...See more Lately, I’ve been having a really hard time with school. Specifically starting assignments. It’s my second year of college so it’s not like I’m new to anything, but I cannot get myself to start things even when I wait till the last minute. I have a somewhat busy schedule with work and have no off days. I’m either at school or work everyday. But I don’t necessarily want to leave or change either of them. I like work and love the environment and people there a lot. And I do have a genuine interest and care for my education and a lot of time enjoy the topics that my assignments are about. I just haven’t been able to get into a routine of getting things done. My classes aren’t all that difficult either, besides a math class. I just constantly put things off and when I start to feel the pressure and consequences of doing so I get overwhelmed and overthink. When I’m feeling especially overwhelmed, my thought process seems to become much more emotional and short term. I start looking for the quickest way to make the feeling stop rather than thinking about things the way I normally would. I assume the worst and jump to conclusions and can’t trust myself to make rational decisions. I just don’t know why I’ve been struggling with this recently. I’m a relatively happy person and there’s a lot of things and people in my life that give me joy, and I do like to be productive and to grow, but I have little to no desire to do actual work for school. This has just been a really persistent cycle. And I’ve tried so many things to get myself to just start and nothing ever sticks.
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Need advice.
by unassumingChestnut1543
Last post
 September 28th
...See more My grandparents are paying for my phone right now and my grandpa's saying that hes taking it away because I don't beleive in God. Everything is on my phone. And im not talking about all my social media and friends im talking about my life is literally tied to this phone.. everything I've signed up for gorges to an account that I only have access to on this phone. My college interveiws, my job applications, my highschool enrollment stuff.. I literally need ut for everything. My grandpa said I need to figure my lofe out and get my life together and thats what im trying to do. Im finally getting somewhere and hes taking everything away from me like I didnt work hard to get here. I was an alcoholic, I was depressed I was stuck in my head for the longest time but im finally trying. Im trying to be better. Im trying to do something with my life and he just doesnt care. I dont have a job so I can't just go out and get a new phone. Plus he already turned my phone off, I thought he was gonna stop there..but no.
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Silver
by gentleOak7196
Last post
 September 27th
...See more Hello! I feel this heavy stuff on my heart for quite a while now. Unfortunately, it's heavier now. I've gotten into this competition. I poured everything. My best. My heart. My soul. Unfortunately, I didn't win the first place. What's more heartbreaking is that, I've fallen into the second place. It only means that I was there. I was good. But never good enough.
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Help needed
by quietLime8142
Last post
 September 21st
...See more Please dont mind the grammar Or any mistake, I'm genuinely seeking for help. I'm a grade 11 student looking to study abroad. I have no idea how to prepare or plan. I really wanna study abroad since I wanna go for film studies and choreography and there aren't any good opportunities where I live. If any one knows what to do, how I can expand my cv or any advice, please feel free to do so. Thank you!
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Stressed about school
by thechiefhjojo
Last post
 September 19th
...See more Pretty much what the title says, I just started year 11 in the UK, and everything feels so overwhelming. I have school intervention from 3pm to 4pm every weekday now, and on top of that, my dad wants me to revise more. He wants another hour every weekday, and he makes me revise and take a test in front of him to prove that I studied. I feel like my mom and dad have too many expectations of me. They want a grade 9 in every subject I take (which is the highest grade), and didn't listen when I told them that's near impossible for an average person like me. They say that I promised them I would get these results, but I made that promise 4 years ago when I was afraid of them taking my phone away. When I try to reason with them, they just bulldoze over me and tell me that 'The only thing we want from you is grades'. My parents immigrated to this country so I could have a better life, and I'm grateful for that, but whatever they ask just feels like too much. I've started avoiding my dad because every interaction turns into a discussion about my studies. They want me to be the best of the best, but I just want to be a regular guy with a social life, not cooped up indoors all day. I want to finish school and get an average job, with an average car and rent a house. I have online friends across the world too, and staying up to talk to them feels like my only freedom. I stay up late at night because it's the only time nobody bothers me. What should I do?
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Teens & Words - Expectations
by Sirpi
Last post
 September 19th
...See more Three friends are having some expectations set for them.              Aman has set his own expectation to score very good marks and get accepted into one of the top 3 colleges/universities. He is too busy these days with his studies and preparation. He doesn't even have time for eating, sleeping or talking to friends. He doesn't want to let down anyone involved in his academics.              Swati doesn't have much self-expectations. But her parents have a very demanding expectation that she should get into one of the famous universities. They also keep reminding her about their sacrifices and financial expenses they made towards her studies. This makes her feel guilty all the time.             Sam and his parents are not having any expectations at all. The same time, he is very popular among his friends and family. They are all expecting him to score great. This makes him feel on edge.             These friends feel like they are in a pressure cooker. They also feel,                                  *Headache                                  *Sweaty                                 *Tense muscles.          The more the exam is close by, whenever they talk to each other, they share statements like,                                  *I am always bad at entrance exams                                  *I am going to fail this one                                  *I might let down everyone                                   *I will become a failure. Many of us can relate ourselves with Aman, Swati or Sam with one way or the other. Managing the expectations becomes impossible when they are unrealistic. We might try few things to lessen the anxious feelings. They are like,                                     *Eating healthy meal                                    *Walking and exercising                                    *Keep talking to friends and family                                    *Taking time to read about some fun things Same time, being flexible opens door to accepting the low scores and moving forward also finding new possibilities and perspectives.
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Stress and anxiety due to starting college soon
by wittyCar8428
Last post
 September 15th
...See more I'm starting college soon and it's making me feel really anxious and stressed. I feel childish writing this as I'm supposed to be a mature adult who's not afraid of life or anything and has dreams that keep me going. I do have dreams, I am working towards them slowly, but I feel like I'm not fit to be adult. I'm also figuring out my dorm situation as the room I got assigned is awful and made me not want to go there at all, even if I get another room. I wanted to stay at dorm from the start, it would make my schedule a bit light as I wouldn't have to travel for over an hour, but I will miss my privacy and my home. I will also miss the calls I had with my long distance partner as I don't know if I'll be able to call with her much at dorm. The whole situation got worse as my parents are pressuring me into staying at the dorm so I have social life. I already know a few people at the college who I believe might become my friends eventually and I think they just want me to be busy enough so I also don't have time for my partner as they're very against our relationship due to homophobia. I can't seem to be able to stand up to them, as I start crying whenever we argue. I can't help it and it's annoying and makes me feel like I'm just a pathetic excuse of a human who has no way of succeeding in life. I am perfectly capable of commuting and I would prefer to do that because of my mental health too. I don't like new places and it just takes me a really long while to get used to new places. I'm also very socially awkward and fear I'd become a burden or a nuisance to my future roommates and that I'll get left out by them.  I am afraid I will be tired and won't be able to study well enough to pass no matter if I stay at dorms or commute. I am afraid of moving, I am afraid of classes, I am afraid of what comes after this all, I am afraid I won't last in this fast paced world, I am afraid and anxious about this all and wish I could just go back a few years so I'm still just a child that doesn't have to deal with the world yet. I'm just simply afraid and don't know how to deal with that. I can't wait for the future, yet I am so afraid of what comes next.

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