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figuring it out

User Profile: Lostliz
Lostliz April 16th

i'm doing what i'm supposed to do, but it still feels like something's off... like i haven't found my place yet. it's like i've got keys, but no idea which door they belong to... and even if i try one, i don't know if it's somewhere i actually want to stay and time just keeps running😭 lowkey scared of where i'll end up if i don't figure it out

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 April 17th

@Lostliz

All you can do is your best.

Take one day at a time.

And trust your instincts.

It can be scary and we can doubt and feel unsure, but you can do this 💙

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User Profile: Lostliz
Lostliz OP April 17th

Awe thanks💙😭

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 April 17th

@Lostliz

A pleasure 💛

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User Profile: goodSea8541
goodSea8541 May 1st

@Lostliz I feel the same way! In my case, i keep on accomplishing but I dont really have an end goal. so it giving me a hard time because idk what im doing all of this for.

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User Profile: Lostliz
Lostliz OP May 27th

@goodSea8541

yeah and that’s what makes it scary tbh… right now life still feels kinda structured, like “just study, do well, keep going” but eventually you reach the part where nobody really tells you what to do next and somehow you’re just expected to know. i feel weirdly shielded from the actual world sometimes 😭 like everyone assumes we’re becoming something but i genuinely have no idea what that something even is yet 

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User Profile: Iv02
Iv02 May 14th

@Lostliz
Hey Lostliz :) Thank you for being brave and sharing what's been on your mind. We are here to support you. 

It sounds like you’ve been feeling a lot of frustration and uncertainty lately. It seems like you’re trying to figure out what direction feels right for you, but instead you’re left feeling confused and emotionally overwhelmed. I can understand why it feels scary watching time pass while still feeling unsure about where you belong or what direction to take. All that must be exhausting. 
What do you think has been making these feelings stronger lately?

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User Profile: Lostliz
Lostliz OP May 27th

@Iv02

i appreciate your kind reply honestly💙 and yea there’s always this constant “what if” in the back of my mind too. like what if i choose wrong, what if i spend years building a life that doesn’t actually feel like mine. i think that uncertainty is what gets overwhelming sometimes

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User Profile: sunnyFan8452
sunnyFan8452 June 3rd

@Lostliz What you’re feeling is really common when you’re trying to “do everything right” but still don’t feel settled. It can feel like everyone else has a map and you’re just guessing directions.

But the truth is, most people don’t find their place in a straight line—they try things, change paths, and slowly figure out what fits. That “something’s off” feeling isn’t failure, it’s just you still exploring.

You don’t have to solve your whole future right now. Focus on small decisions, not the per😊fect door.

And even if it feels scary, you’re not as lost as it seems—you’re still in the process of finding your shape.  удалить объект на фото 

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User Profile: Lostliz
Lostliz OP June 18th

@sunnyFan8452

Thxxx💙 means a lot! 

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User Profile: GumballMachine
GumballMachine June 12th

@Lostliz I feel the exact same way.