Am I a functioning alcoholic?
I genuinely seem to not be able to engage normally with alcohol and weed, but mostly alcohol. The worst part is that I do like beer and cocktails flavors, so I don't only drink them to get drunk, but I am always looking to get drunk. I don't wanna be a burden to my friends anymore. I truly do think that I have a type of addiction but in all the years I've been drinking I cannot seem to truly get sober; I'll stop drinking for a short period of time and then go back. Is there anyone who can tell me how to fix this? Should I quit cold turkey? Please help.
@thecloudsinthesky
I do not think there is a one size fits all situation with Alcohol. the idea of a functioning alcoholic was in my mind a person who drank regularly ( everyday) but were mostly able to continue life as normal doing all they would do job/ home life etc with few noticing.
If you are drinking just to get drunk not having one while socializing etc. If you are looking to get drunk a lot and every time you have alcohol that seems different.
if you are able to stop for awhile what triggers you to drink again? When do you stop after passing out or getting ill?
quitting is also a personal item not a one size fits all ... do you have any withdrawal when you do quit for short term? if not you might be able to quit cold turkey but that is NOT advisable for hardcore with serious withdrawal symptoms. Talking to a doctor or medical professional i smart to do in that case.
I can relate to your post. I'm tired of drinking. It's gotten so old. I'm going to focus on altering the programming I've had for a long time and start a new with a riendly constant reminder for myself to use my time wisely and keep a level head. Oh. And find new locations to frequent and to lovingly leave the people who don't want to change where they are. Support groups - anything - but it's for me.
That's as far as I've gotten. What say you?
@thecloudsinthesky
It takes incredible self-awareness to recognize what you’re going through, and I want to honor that. 🌟 You’ve already taken an important step by reaching out and acknowledging that alcohol has a hold on you. Addiction can feel overwhelming, but please know that you are not alone, and recovery is possible.
It’s okay to not have all the answers right now—this is a process, and it’s okay to take it one step at a time. Many of us find success in seeking support from others, whether through therapy, support groups, or trusted friends. It’s also okay if “cold turkey” feels too daunting—what matters most is finding a path that works for you and that feels sustainable.
Remember, you deserve peace and freedom from this cycle. Every effort you make to take control is progress. You don’t have to do it alone, and with time and support, I believe you can break free from the hold alcohol has on you. You are so much stronger than you realize. Keep going, and be gentle with yourself as you take the next steps toward healing. 💙
Much love,
Kayla 💕💫
