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@Noomie

Hey there! It isn't wrong of you to clarify misunderstandings with a friend. I am sorry to hear it didn't turn out to be favorable. But let me remind you, you matter and you have all the worth in the world. There are instances where giving up seems like the easiest resort but it only makes us weaker. Don't think you don't have friends for you have all of us rooting for you. You aren't wasting anyone's time. Rather, we are blessed to have you on here as a part of our community. If ever you wish to connect with someone, feel free to text me or browse for alternative listeners through this link. Don't hesitate to seek emotional support or simply a light hearted chat. Take care.

@Noomie we are here to support you, so I am glad you shared the story.

I have learned by every mistake I made how to improve my communication skills. I find that telling other people what I want is an exercise in futility. They only want to tell me what they want, but sometimes I meet a friend that really has my best interests in mind.

I try not to take other's reactions to heart. They may have been having a bad day. Or maybe they were not as close a friend as I thought. Change is difficult. Letting changes happen without blaming oneself helps us to be happier.

@Noomie

I really only have one friend that I would let my real feelings out to. I treasure that friendship, because it is something very rare. Most people will say "Let Me know if you want to talk", but if you try they will either simply be polite or otherwise shut you down.

I am sorry to hear your conversation didn't go well. I will say I have found the people here to be very supportive and they do listen.

I'm sorry you are going through this. Atleast you were honest with your friend. Atleast you tried to communicate.

I imagine you must be feeling a mixture of grief, anger, confusion, hope and exhaustion at the whole thing.

The thing that helps me in these situations, is to let go of the person, with love. Also, don't blame yourself.

Distract yourself with the beautiful world around you.

You are 100% worth it.

I wish you all the best.

Communication is a great way to start and a great way to express your emotions appropriately as a person. It’s the best thing people can

choose to do instead of fight and argue. Not everybody will enjoy you approaching them correctly or will even understand it. Some might get intimidated by you or the fact that you want to talk. I would try to not focus on the negative things they said and try to talk to someone about it so you can at least get your emotions out in the air. Keeping it in and emotions getting built up doesn’t make you feel okay at all. If you need a person to listen or talk back and fourth with I will gladly talk to you. I’m not a therapist or a person who knows a lot about emotions but I am a person who has been through things and learned things. I’m still learning now so why not try to help you or other people while teaching and learning in this journey call life.

Also if anyone else who sees this needs a friend or someone to socialize with I am here as well. Just message me. :)

Noomie listen this app is full of people like you with similar stuff when life's *** drop everything and do something for you don't worry ABT anyone for a while if you want to talk I'm told I'm a good listener