How are you? 💙
Hello everyone, 😊
today, I just like to check in with everybody.
How are you feeling, what do you need in this moment?
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Thank you for tagging me! I am not doing so good. My sister has a friend from work over so I have been up in my room for hours. After a long day at work it sucks not to be
able to even watch TV, and to have no one to talk to
@calmOrange8872
I can understand that you want to relax and watch television or chat after a workday! Have you already checked out the loneliness support room just to have a chat or even connect with a listener?
Re your question:
- Tired.
- Sleep, & for the muscle aches to go away.
(I've been scavenging crates & packing my books)
@slowdecline48
Hope you could already or get the rest you need soon after that hard work.
@amiablePeace77
So kind of you to check in. Thank you so much for taking the time to do that ❤️
How are you feeling, what do you need in this moment?
I’m 50/50 so better than I was at certain times in the past.
In this moment what I need is a life where I have everything I deserve or earned or need to be happy and that includes something I never had before, an intimate relationship with someone I’m into and wanna be with.
@akunknown
I would wish you to get that life you want or at least most of it but glad you're better now already.
@amiablePeace77
Thank you for wishing that for me ❤️❤️
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@amiablePeace77
Thankyou for your consideration Ami💖
I am pretty pleasant today, laughing out a lot and enjoyingggg🥰Hoping the same for everybody out there
@resilience2025
Great that you're having a pleasant day, hope it continues that way! 😀
@amiablePeace77 i need some advice 🙂 I honestly appreciate anyone who takes the time to help me. I'm not overly a sharer, I don't trust at all, I tend to keep things to myself and do everything for myself, u don't ask for help. I genuinely like to be there for others and make them happy but events in my life don't make it easy for me to do the same for myself. Someone who I decided to give a chance became a close friend, i told them everything, I held back though, but they convinced me they cared and so i opened up. We texted all the time, sometimes for hours, always them reaching out first. Recently out of nowhere, they stopped answering my messages, reading them but not replying. The surprise and the abruptness of it has been so difficult to process. I can't get my head around it. There was no warning 😔🥺
@Amanda84
I can understand that you're worried if you had a close relationship and were texting for hours and all over sudden it stopped. I am sure it wasn't easy for you to finally open up.
There can be a number of reasons for someone not to answer like being very busy right now or simply having to focus on themselves (maybe not feeling well) or just feeling overwhelmed with writing for hours. Have you considered to ask them?
@amiablePeace77 thank you so much, yes I did ask, I am not an impatient person and usually I don't overthink, but it has been over three weeks of complete silence when he is normally the one always reaching out and he is getting the messages!
@Amanda84
Hii Amanda!💕I hope you have been keeping well now!
I empathize with you in this situation! And I am sure it might not be easy given the context you have mentioned! So, firstly, I really appreciate you for the clarity and strength you showed to put your stance forward bravely!
Secondly, coming to your problem! It's really great that you are not an overthinker and neither impatient, that are super good qualities because people turn impatient in such situations.
However, given the scenario, whatever you feel is because of the habitual pattern your mind has developed. Now, it's looking for that comfort again! But you can shift your perspective and take this as another growth opportunity in your life!
Acknowledge your feelings by journaling or talking to somebody you rely on (I am also there here) but also remind yourself that what they do and don't do is not under your control! Start focusing on yourself, learning lessons from this experience, expanding your support system and then gradually building emotional independence and self-love!
You are a brave person! But sometimes giving space to people is also important for relationships to better thrive if they have been really supportive!
@resilience2025 Thank you so so much for taking the time to write such a clear, concise and heartwarming message, you have given me alot to think about and really put some things into perspective for me. From the bottom of my heart, thank you 😊
@Amanda84
You are most welcome Amanda💕Thankyou to you too!
@resilience2025 thank you so much for taking the time to send such a clear, concise, supportive and heartwarming message. It means alot and it has given me alot to think about and more perspective on things. It means the world 😊 from the bottom of my heart, thank you 😊
@amiablePeace77
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