I hate my parents and I wanna cut ties with them when I'm older
I'm finally on winter break but I'm not happy, my dad literally yelled at me about the dishes even though he said that he was going to do them, when I told him that he said he was going to them and that I did them yesterday, he yelled and screamed at me and saying *** like "I don't care! When I say do the dishes do the dishes" I was so *** off that I wanted to scream and run out the fvcking house, then last month when my mom was taking me to the hospital because of a suicide attempt at school, she was angry at me and yelled at me and said that it will go on my permanent record and now I'm worried about my future, my parents never really cared that much about my mental health since I still haven't gotten a therapist even though I keep asking for one, and mom said that I'm not getting a therapist until the house is clean. Now I'm thinking of cutting all contact with them in the future, when they asked if I was going to stay home while I'm in college I said no. I just wanna be in a college dorm, graduate and then get my own place away from them and my brother.
@Yurnuthere sorry you have a very challenging situation. I hope you can manage not to react because getting angry destroys all the good feelings in someone.
I hear you you want to live apart from the drama of home. Think of plans that are practical that will let you do that.
Hope you find the support you are looking for.
I 100% understand this. Go for that dream! Attend college away from home. Apply for scholarships. I wanted to cut ties from my parents. But, after we separated and I had no contact with them for months. I saw they’re POV, that they are different and not as well aware as I am. Unwilling to have self growth. I had to accept that. When we reconnected I made it clear I would rather suffer homeless then have fake love. Now we love each other from a distance. It helps a lot! But i do understand rent prices and living is just so hard now. But dont give up!
@Yurnuthere you are not alone, I’m from South America, and from here, you have all my support, life is really beautiful, I hope things get better at home for you, remember that no one is perfect, if you need any help just ask it. From my personal experience, parents are sometimes jerks, but the only thing they are searching (I wish) is your wellness. I’m sure that if you effort enough, you will be soon able to achieve your dream and live away from them. Good luck!