Right or Wrong?
There are situations when we need to look for what's wrong, but it's not required all the time.
Are you usually looking for what’s right, or for what’s wrong even if no judgment is needed? Can you tell why?
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@amiablePeace77 I was just thinking about this yesterday. I do tend toward more of a focus on the negative. I always want to feel like I’m prepared. I’m always looking for red flags. Sometimes it has been useful like you said, to get me out of bad situations. Sometimes bad situations taught me what the red flags were. But other times I end up thinking someone reminds me of something bad from the past, and I don’t take the whole person into consideration. Or I try to, but the fear of the one thing overpowers my ability to have confidence in the good things. I want to focus more on the good qualities. I want to enjoy the present more. I don’t want to live in fear, constantly wondering if something is right or wrong. I just have to have faith that if I make a decision in good faith, and something goes wrong, that I am competent enough to handle it. And have peace in that.
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas gives you a giant tiny hug ❤❤ it's so easy to fall into the negative, but we are all here for you ❤❤ I'm always here for you friend ❤❤
@amiablePeace77
In any situations I look for what’s right without judgement or criticism believing that to be wrong, having no benefits or being helpful in any way. If someone or something is wrong and I notice, I don’t always point it out but have gotten better in doing that compared to the past when I never did.
@akunknown rule 1- I'm never wrong
Rule 2- if I'm wrong read rule 1
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@amiablePeace77 I've got a hopeful heart so I always see all the good things or have the nicest judgements about a situation or people that I've never encountered before. It can cause a bit of hurt when my hopes/ expectations are not met but I've just accepted it as the other way cause me a lot of paranoia and uncertainty.
@BlueDarkAurora your a very sweet, supportive person. I'm glad your here with us on cups ❤
@Tinywhisper11 I could say that a thousand times for you and I will :) <3 The strengths and love that you carry in your heart always amazes me. You are one of a kind *-* Please keep being you cause the world needs a huge amount of tinies <3_<3
@BlueDarkAurora ❤❤🙂
@amiablePeace77
Are you usually looking for what’s right, or for what’s wrong even if no judgment is needed? Can you tell why?It's a case by case basis most of the time now but there are certain times when yes I do do that i can't tell why I think it's just a response because I always feel like something wrong
@alysianna
I hope that you get the support you need here to find out how the things which feel wrong can be changed or whether it is possible to accept them as they are but still live happily.
@amiablePeace77
stuff has gotten better i applied for the job the other night and have my phone back so I might be on this site less often now as I can talk to my friends and family again and I have plans for the next 2 days with my friends kid my mom said okay what surprises me I thought she would be the one to say no
@alysianna
Nice that you can talk to everyone again. Your life at home is important so it's understandable if you can't log in here as much as before anymore but know you are always appreciated!
@amiablePeace77
i might be on here more frequently again starting Friday cus my mom decided it's my fault streak on her stupid game was broken because I'm apparently not to have my phone in my roomAnd no no not to keep it anymore It has to stay upstairs after tomorrowAnd they'll let me know if my job application place callsBut I don't know if that's certain because my mom lies all the timeSo she might forget that you to keep my phone
@alysianna
Sorry that things got difficult again. We are always glad to see you here!
@amiablePeace77 it depends on my mental health, I like to stay happy, and grateful. I truly feel like I'm the luckiest person in the world, and I find beauty in everything. But then somedays, weeks months. It's hard to focus on what's right, cause there's so much wrong
hugs ami ❤❤ how have you been??
@Tinywhisper11
I am so glad to hear that you feel like being the luckiest person in the world. Though I recognize that it's not always simple to stay positive and that there will always be difficult and things that feel wrong, I sincerely hope that you will never hesitate to ask for help when you're feeling low.💙
