Would you trade stability for growth?
If you had a chance for a positive change but one that would mean letting go of what you have now, would you take it? And what would guide your decision?
@BlueDarkAurora Yes, but i think that's why half of us are on here now. Its the growth half that helps us push past the security.
@genericbeing I agree, well said ^-^ 💙
That’s a REALLY good question. <3
@jesusredeemedme2425 aw thank you 💖 :))
@BlueDarkAurora I think its worth it in some prospects, if it were up to me Id love to get some decent gym gains and I've been rotting pretty frequently and I think having consistency in that would be worth it
@LizzieIsCoolio that's such a positive change and I really hope you get to do it with consistency 💙 I'm wishing for consistency for myself too ^-^
See that's contextual, how can one be 100% sure that change would be positive. It can be positive for short term not long term.
If I were to make a decision, I would take the risk because we are changing everyday every sec with every experience, nothing is constant. So let's embrace changes.
Consequences of the decision can be good or bad but there will be satisfaction that I atleast tried.
While taking decision just be mindful and balanced so that you don't blame others and take responsibility.
My decision would be guided by a lot of reasoning analysis and experience of others .
I hope that helps 🙃
No.
I have a couple choices, actually. Both guided by my parents and my partner's mom.
My dad wants me to break up with my boyfriend and move back home to go to college.
My partner's mom is willing to allow us both to live in her basement in exchange for some chores, some money.
We are choosing to be homeless instead.
To work at an amazing job.
To live where people are kind.
To be surrounded with beautiful sights and excellent entertainment.
To be free from any life scrutiny and figure things out ourselves.
Because we got this. ❤
@BelongtotheSun You've definitely got this and I love everything you're choosing. I hope you continue to choose what feels right for you 💙
@BlueDarkAurora
I am exactly at those crossroads this week.
I don't know what has been shutting me down for the past few weeks but I think it has exactly something to do with your post. I believe my ideas and dreams of what to do. with what I have. is not really doable within my time frame or physical endurance.
I'm seriously thinking about stopping the chase and just sit still for a while as I start selling everything off that I own to start a realistic quiet existence.
@IsayUncle You're not alone, I'm there too ^^ Time really is such an important factor when it comes to choices. We may have a set time frame for things but if things can still work out, even if a little later than we expected.. I think that's okay too.
You can sit still for a while, let the storm settle and find more clarity in the decisions you need to make. Pausing doesn't always mean letting go. I believe in you 💙
@BlueDarkAurora
Very wise words. thank you.
@IsayUncle💕
Ooo why can't we have both 🙂 positive change while we get to keep good things that's we have going for us. But if I had to choose then yeah, would choose positive change. Can always build something again. I think it's the fulfillment which would come from the positive change which would drive my decision. If I was fulfilled I wouldn't have been seeking a change.
@AK245 oh how I wish, but life isn't always fair. I really like what you said about how we can always build something again. Nicely put 💙
Never . I love growth because we can never stop learning it makes you a better version of you and in turn makes you a better person in the society.
@Suaray1212 Nice ^-^ 💙
Yes I would choose growth , because I want a life of adventure and stability kills all the thrill and I don't want to be stable and dead on inside
@zadeverovox life of adventure, that's awesome :) 💙
i’ve made this change. it was terrifying but it was so worth it
@undefinedturtle01 I'm so happy to hear that 💙 Thank you for sharing :)